Jeanne,
Hi, welcome to the site. My name is Moni. I had a hair transplant with Dr. Jerry Cooley in Charlotte, NC. I was very happy with them. He said there are a lot of people out there who have no idea what they are doing transplanting hair. He said there were about 5 in the country that he would trust. I trust him after my result and the way I was treated. I know others who have had good results there too. My hair was done in units of 1,2, or 4 hairs. There was no look of having plugs, just natural hair growth. My scar was complimented by another doctor's office when they took out the stitches. It was really hard to find. In my experience, they knew I was trans and it made absolutely no difference. I was misgendered once at the intake and I pointed it out. They warm heartedly apologized and everyone was respectful and kind. I fall on the side of being upfront with your gender so they can judge what to do. There is just so much donor material and you want to do it right from the start. Good luck. Happy to answer any questions.