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Started by Arianna Valentine, December 25, 2018, 01:53:00 AM

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Sky1090

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December 25, 2018, 01:40:11 PM
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 25, 2018, 01:35:50 PM
While we both have known for the past five or six years that this was coming he was doing so good and then all the sudden he's not I mean yeah we three or four trips to the ER a year expected last year I don't even think he had a trip to the ER but it's just you can only fight for so long

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That's exactly how our situation was. He was on a steady decline but he was stable. As a mater of fact, there was no mention of cancer even though he told his doctors every two weeks he had an issue with his stomach. They checked and checked and there was never anything. Then all of a sudden it was stage 4 and terminal. It's not easy hun but I know you'll get through it. You are a strong woman.


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Arianna Valentine

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December 25, 2018, 01:55:05 PM
Quote from: Sky1090 on December 25, 2018, 01:40:11 PM

That's exactly how our situation was. He was on a steady decline but he was stable. As a mater of fact, there was no mention of cancer even though he told his doctors every two weeks he had an issue with his stomach. They checked and checked and there was never anything. Then all of a sudden it was stage 4 and terminal. It's not easy hun but I know you'll get through it. You are a strong woman.


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I thank you very much I don't know if I'm that strong to be honest I don't feel it right now

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Rachel

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December 25, 2018, 06:27:24 PM
Arianna, I am sorry you father's is not well. He has a very special daughter that is there for him and loves him.
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dee82

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December 25, 2018, 07:51:05 PM
Arianna,

This is a tough thing to be going through. Any time is bad, but especially right now with all the expectations of the season.

Before my dad passed away, the doctors were saying for weeks, actually over a month, that he was about to leave us. Making us think it was only days each time. They were so wrong, and it added to the stress that me and my siblings had to go through.

Take care of yourself, and don't put too many demands on a perfect farewell. Life and death is messy.

Sorry, if this is not an upbeat reply. Thinking of you.

~Dee.


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Arianna Valentine

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December 25, 2018, 07:53:19 PM
Quote from: dee82 on December 25, 2018, 07:51:05 PM
Arianna,

This is a tough thing to be going through. Any time is bad, but especially right now with all the expectations of the season.

Before my dad passed away, the doctors were saying for weeks, actually over a month, that he was about to leave us. Making us think it was only days each time. They were so wrong, and it added to the stress that me and my siblings had to go through.

Take care of yourself, and don't put too many demands on a perfect farewell. Life and death is messy.

Sorry, if this is not an upbeat reply. Thinking of you.

~Dee.


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Actually that describes exactly what I'm going through about four five years ago they told him he only had 6 months to live yes I said that correctly four or five years ago he only has 6 months to live about three years ago he only had four months to live so they have yet to be correct and the way he puts it he's hanging in there like a hair in a Biscuit yeah he's old school and Country go figure LOL but know your post was absolutely wonderful and it is very much appreciated

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Zaniyah

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December 25, 2018, 08:25:46 PM
I hope the rest of your day/week goes well. It's going to be hard but I believe in you!
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Arianna Valentine

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December 25, 2018, 08:37:16 PM
Quote from: Zaniyah on December 25, 2018, 08:25:46 PM
I hope the rest of your day/week goes well. It's going to be hard but I believe in you!
Thank you very much and I know I can count on All My Sisters here for love and support during this trying time

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ChrissyRyan

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December 25, 2018, 09:05:02 PM
Arianna,

How is your father doing this evening?
Are you okay?


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Arianna Valentine

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December 25, 2018, 09:24:08 PM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on December 25, 2018, 09:05:02 PM
Arianna,

How is your father doing this evening?
Are you okay?


Chrissy
He seems to be doing fine I went up to the hospital to see him and to take him some ham because I told him I would cook a ham for Christmas and bring him some he seemed in good spirits he thought for sure that he was going to die the other night cuz he could not breathe my oldest nephew went up to see him as well which was very kind he loves his grandpa but everything seems to be going good and I am doing good I have a lot of friends and a lot of support that are helping me through this trying time friends like you and everybody else here thank you though

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ChrissyRyan

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December 25, 2018, 09:28:48 PM
Quote from: Arianna Valentine on December 25, 2018, 09:24:08 PM
He seems to be doing fine I went up to the hospital to see him and to take him some ham because I told him I would cook a ham for Christmas and bring him some he seemed in good spirits he thought for sure that he was going to die the other night cuz he could not breathe my oldest nephew went up to see him as well which was very kind he loves his grandpa but everything seems to be going good and I am doing good I have a lot of friends and a lot of support that are helping me through this trying time friends like you and everybody else here thank you though

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Arianna,

You are being a kind, loving, responsible, and good daughter.
I am glad your father is in good spirits this evening.

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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