Quote from: Jenny1969 on January 06, 2019, 01:57:37 AM
Barbie, If I may ask, how old was your daughter when you transitioned from daddy to mommy? The reason I ask is because I have a 3 year old granddaughter and at the age of 3 I am sure she wont understand and I dont want to confuse her developing mind......I am at a loss as what to do........This is a great burden on my brain every day. If I had one reason not to transition it would because it would cause something negative to my granddaughter
When I just started transition, my daughter was born. As she grew up, initially she did not know clearly the differences between men and women. As she started going to school, she gradually recognized my uniqueness as a dad. She always talks a lot with my wife who is very supportive of me and explains in detail about my ->-bleeped-<-.
As my daughter knows very well that I love her so much and I sustain my family without any problem, she accepts me very well. Even she is proud of me. Once she came to my office with her classmates, and I bought ice creams and drinks for them. Sometimes she has a chance to listen the chats between my visiting friends and me, and knows well that I work and interact with people like other dads.
Nowadays she likes to play with me. For example, she touches my chest, asking jokingly why I don't have boobs. Bringing scissors to cut my hair. She urges me not to cross legs like other ladies, because it is not good for my backbone health. She tries to open up and touch nearly all of my beauty and cosmetic items. Also she tries to wear some of my clothes. She understands fully what I want and am doing. She playfully calls me as a lady or mom.
My daughter is also unique, as she is very active and likes boys' activities. Even her voice is very low and loud. But she is anyway a girl who easily gets upset from some troublesome relationships with her classmates in school, whining about it to her mom everyday.
I think there is no difference between kids and adults in understanding and accepting it. Some kids can be open-minded, while others can tend to be bigot, depending on their personality, culture, religion and education.
Kids are the mirror of their adults.
barbie~~