I finally came out to my Doctor.  He is LGBT friendly, and he gave me this link to find a good Gender Therapist.  I wanted to share it as finding a pro Transgender Therapist might help when it comes to helping resolve doubts of significant others.  I found one he recommended, and after looking at her profile was really comfortable that I would like her as a therapist.  Then read she is moving and taking no more patients.   

  Anyway, here is the link.
https😕/www.outcarehealth.org/