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Started by HappyMoni, February 28, 2019, 05:16:25 PM

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KimOct

Quote from: Tribble on March 24, 2019, 02:54:29 PM
I've been thinking about this a lot the last few days and am considering getting a pump but I'm dubious as to their lasting effects.  I'm kind of eyeballing the Bosom Buddy.

I think it was another thread here that I stumbled on a trans-specific way to measure breasts and I followed their directions.  So, I'm either a 38C or 40A.  While I'd love to think I have C-cups, there's no way in hell I do.  My ex did and there's no way I'm a third of her volume!  I don't even feel like I fill a formed A-cup bra.  So I guess I'm a 40A, which, of course, doesn't seem to exist.  I've never gone in for a formal fitting and because of my size and shape, I was always buying 36A or 36-Nearly-A bras.

Help me, Bosom Buddy!  You're my only hope!

I'm curious to hear of your experience with an enlargement pump, so please, keep us updated!

I thought it was help us Obi Wan Kanobe your're our only hope.   ;D ;D

I will keep you updated on the progress of 'the boob sucker'  :D

Also regarding ridiculous bra sizes I found a site that sells a 46A  yes its true.  I forgot the darn name though when I find it again I will write it down because I need replacements.

46A   Geez I am a bruiser.  >:(
The first transphobe you have to conquer is yourself
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Tribble

Quote from: KimOct on March 26, 2019, 07:10:19 PM
I thought it was help us Obi Wan Kanobe your're our only hope.   ;D ;D

:icon_lol:

Quote from: KimOct on March 26, 2019, 07:10:19 PMI will keep you updated on the progress of 'the boob sucker'  :D

:icon_woowoo:

Quote from: KimOct on March 26, 2019, 07:10:19 PMAlso regarding ridiculous bra sizes I found a site that sells a 46A  yes its true.  I forgot the darn name though when I find it again I will write it down because I need replacements.

46A   Geez I am a bruiser.  >:(

Thanks.  I did find some on Amazon as was mentioned above, but I'd love to hear the place you found. :)
2003-2004 -- Gradual transition -- I didn't correct pronouns and people basically settled on the right ones on their own.
late 2004 -- Orchiectomy.
Late 2015 -- Stupidly saw the political climate and spurned on by my husband's request for a divorce I detransitioned.
2019 -- Rebuilding my wardrobe so I can retransition.  Turns out I cain't bury my true self, after all.  I call these last few years my failed experiment.  At least I found my true feelings were real.
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HappyMoni

The term boob sucker made me think of the Deuce Bigalow movie when he had the girl at the fish store get the sea snails at the bottom of the tank. Of course she then had to get her boobs wet to get them. Men, they are big on sea snails. Gotta love them!

Before BA, I found bras at Walmart that fit a bigger band/smaller cup. I hate shopping Walmart but I was desperate.

Steph, you gonna tell Kim who Clyde was? You brought it up.
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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KimOct

Waiting to hear about Clyde but in the meantime I remembered the website for ridiculous bra sizes. 

The site name is Belk.

I have important things to go and do right now..............

Watch reruns of The Office and fall asleep at 900 pm  ;D

I forgot what going to work early in the morning is like.  It's been several years.  I need to win the lottery.  :D

Some of Belk bra sizes Oh My  seriously ??

46A (4)
46B (23)
46C (36)
46D (39)
46DD (48)
46DDD (14)
46F (27)
46G (19)
46H (19)
46I (13)
46J (4)
46K (1)
48A (3)
The first transphobe you have to conquer is yourself
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steph2.0

Quote from: HappyMoni on March 26, 2019, 07:51:02 PMSteph, you gonna tell Kim who Clyde was? You brought it up.

Ummm... uhhh... welll... lets just say that it's the jarred "Moni Preserves" after her "confirmation." I believe @laurie is the keeper of the jewels, for some reason I refuse to think about. There is pictorial evidence, but thank goodness I don't have it. I have seen the picture, though, and it's  disturbing in a gloriously glittery kind of way.

Know what I mean? Eh? Eh? Nudge nudge wink wink, say no more!


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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KimOct

HOLY CRAP!!!!   Uh, no thanks. 

My brother wanted my testicles and was going to put them in a jar on a shelf behind his desk.  He is an attorney.

He said he wanted to put something on the jar that said - 'the last person that argued with me'  ;D

I didn't have the stomach to ask to bring them home.

Moni you truly are crazy.   :o :o

I knew I liked you.  :)

The first transphobe you have to conquer is yourself
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Tribble

OMG!

That's funny!

I was never offered mine.  TBH, I doubt I'd have taken them if they were offered.  They were gone and that's all that mattered!

Stupid hospital put men's recovery briefs on me, though. :icon_mad:
2003-2004 -- Gradual transition -- I didn't correct pronouns and people basically settled on the right ones on their own.
late 2004 -- Orchiectomy.
Late 2015 -- Stupidly saw the political climate and spurned on by my husband's request for a divorce I detransitioned.
2019 -- Rebuilding my wardrobe so I can retransition.  Turns out I cain't bury my true self, after all.  I call these last few years my failed experiment.  At least I found my true feelings were real.
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steph2.0

Quote from: KimOct on March 26, 2019, 08:37:46 PM
HOLY CRAP!!!!   Uh, no thanks. 

My brother wanted my testicles and was going to put them in a jar on a shelf behind his desk.  He is an attorney.

He said he wanted to put something on the jar that said - 'the last person that argued with me'  ;D

I didn't have the stomach to ask to bring them home.

Moni you truly are crazy.   :o :o

I knew I liked you.  :)

Well, to be fair, I think it's simply an artistic rendition of the actual "item." The glitter and the permanent "attention" kind of give it away.

Despite that, yes, she be truly crazy. That's why we love her so much.


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Linde

Quote from: Tribble on March 26, 2019, 08:43:21 PM
OMG!

That's funny!

I was never offered mine.  TBH, I doubt I'd have taken them if they were offered.  They were gone and that's all that mattered!

Stupid hospital put men's recovery briefs on me, though. :icon_mad:
I could not keep mine either, bu they were to be cut up to check why those guys were hurting.  I got nice female recovery briefs put on m, the type of one size fis all.  Mine were big enough to keep my nipples nice and warm!
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Tribble

Quote from: Dietlind on March 26, 2019, 10:47:08 PM
I could not keep mine either, bu they were to be cut up to check why those guys were hurting.  I got nice female recovery briefs put on m, the type of one size fis all.  Mine were big enough to keep my nipples nice and warm!

Ah, big 'uns, as my ex used to call them. :D

I hope they didn't find anything that would affect the rest of you.
2003-2004 -- Gradual transition -- I didn't correct pronouns and people basically settled on the right ones on their own.
late 2004 -- Orchiectomy.
Late 2015 -- Stupidly saw the political climate and spurned on by my husband's request for a divorce I detransitioned.
2019 -- Rebuilding my wardrobe so I can retransition.  Turns out I cain't bury my true self, after all.  I call these last few years my failed experiment.  At least I found my true feelings were real.
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Linde

Quote from: Tribble on March 26, 2019, 11:14:01 PM
Ah, big 'uns, as my ex used to call them. :D

I hope they didn't find anything that would affect the rest of you.
No, they could not find anything, but could also not give me any definite reason why those guys were hurting.
Oh well, they are gone, and the hurt along with them!
02/22/2019 bi-lateral orchiectomy






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Rutka71

Interesting, my perspective changed quite a bit during my transition process. I didn't dare admitting to myself and others that I like to have big breasts, because I thought it would invalidate my gender dysphoria. Like it would be some kind of fetish. But after three years on HRT, I still didn't have adult breasts.

So I went to the doctor. In The Netherlands, breast augmentation is only paid for by the medical insurance, if you have no inframammary fold and if your breast glands grew less than 1 cm. Mine were measured and I had both the inframammary fold and more than one cm of growth, so the insurance turned me down. But shortly after that, the dutch government came with a subsidy for breast augmentation for trans women and I just got a budget I can spend in a private clinic!

https://www.dus-i.nl/subsidies/borstprothesen-transvrouwen

I now have the freedom to take the breasts I like and I'm finding out that I actually do want large breasts. I just pretended I didn't because I thought my gatekeeper/ psychologist might reject me over it.
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HappyMoni

I love how this thread went from 'soup to nuts.' I mean 'boobs to nuts.' lol

The best part of this whole deal was watching Steph squirm and resort to a Monty Python reference to explain Clyde. EEEEEE dogie, that was fun. I feel I should 'splain' a little bit here lest you think I am 'nuts.' Shortly before my GCS, I acquired a cardboard penis from a friend at work. It was a joke because she used to go round whispering 'penis' everywhere. Of course my comeback was 'vagina.'  My wonderful friend @Laurie came clear across the country to whop my butt in the hospital bed after my GCS. This is how she ended up with the 'remnants.' My friend Denni was the genius that came up with the name for my little dogie, Clyde. Now if you know the story of Bonnie and Clyde, you know it didn't end well. In the story of Moni and Clyde, it ended very well for Moni. Clyde? Not so much.

I commend Rutka for taking this thread more seriously than I just did in this post.  :o ::)
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Linde

Quote from: HappyMoni on March 27, 2019, 11:06:09 AM

I commend Rutka for taking this thread more seriously than I just did in this post.  :o ::)
Well after all, Rutka is Dutch, and us Nederlanders are serious pople (I am half Dutch, my sweet mother was from there, and I grew up at the border, speaking some kind of Dutch as my first language - Limburgs).  So we can't simply joke around if we are planning for big boobs!  We have to get to it, who knows how long the special government moneys are available!
Rutka, hoe gaat het met je? Het gaat goed met mij?  Boy is it hard to find the language buried deep inside me.  It is almost 60 years ago that I used it the last time!
Knuffels
Linde
02/22/2019 bi-lateral orchiectomy






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KimOct

Quote from: Rutka71 on March 27, 2019, 06:59:50 AM
Interesting, my perspective changed quite a bit during my transition process. I didn't dare admitting to myself and others that I like to have big breasts, because I thought it would invalidate my gender dysphoria. Like it would be some kind of fetish. But after three years on HRT, I still didn't have adult breasts.

So I went to the doctor. In The Netherlands, breast augmentation is only paid for by the medical insurance, if you have no inframammary fold and if your breast glands grew less than 1 cm. Mine were measured and I had both the inframammary fold and more than one cm of growth, so the insurance turned me down. But shortly after that, the dutch government came with a subsidy for breast augmentation for trans women and I just got a budget I can spend in a private clinic!

https://www.dus-i.nl/subsidies/borstprothesen-transvrouwen

I now have the freedom to take the breasts I like and I'm finding out that I actually do want large breasts. I just pretended I didn't because I thought my gatekeeper/ psychologist might reject me over it.

So happy for you !!!
Yeah I had the same concern that if I admitted wanting large breasts it would sound like a fetish.  The FFS doc I met with Zukowski wanted to give me 800cc implants  :o  I didn't want them THAT BIG !!  He said because of my height and frame they would be right.  Oh My.  Looks like none at all - "boob sucker" you're my only hope  :D
The first transphobe you have to conquer is yourself
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KimOct

Quote from: HappyMoni on March 27, 2019, 11:06:09 AM
I love how this thread went from 'soup to nuts.' I mean 'boobs to nuts.' lol

The best part of this whole deal was watching Steph squirm and resort to a Monty Python reference to explain Clyde. EEEEEE dogie, that was fun. I feel I should 'splain' a little bit here lest you think I am 'nuts.' Shortly before my GCS, I acquired a cardboard penis from a friend at work. It was a joke because she used to go round whispering 'penis' everywhere. Of course my comeback was 'vagina.'  My wonderful friend @Laurie came clear across the country to whop my butt in the hospital bed after my GCS. This is how she ended up with the 'remnants.' My friend Denni was the genius that came up with the name for my little dogie, Clyde. Now if you know the story of Bonnie and Clyde, you know it didn't end well. In the story of Moni and Clyde, it ended very well for Moni. Clyde? Not so much.

I commend Rutka for taking this thread more seriously than I just did in this post.  :o ::)

L M A O  !!!!!
You are the funniest poster I have ever seen online.  Boobs to nuts.  ROFL !!!!   :D

Yeah Bonnie didn't do so well either - or Blanche for that matter.
The first transphobe you have to conquer is yourself
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Rutka71

Quote from: Dietlind on March 27, 2019, 01:46:36 PM
Well after all, Rutka is Dutch, and us Nederlanders are serious pople (I am half Dutch, my sweet mother was from there, and I grew up at the border, speaking some kind of Dutch as my first language - Limburgs).  So we can't simply joke around if we are planning for big boobs!  We have to get to it, who knows how long the special government moneys are available!
Rutka, hoe gaat het met je? Het gaat goed met mij?  Boy is it hard to find the language buried deep inside me.  It is almost 60 years ago that I used it the last time!
Knuffels
Linde

Hey Linde!!! Ik lig een klein beetje in de kreukels, want ik had afgelopen donderdag mijn tweede gezichts operatie. (I'm a little under the weather, since I had my second FFS last Thursday). My jawline was shaved, chin shortened and cheekbones put a little more to the side.
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HappyMoni

Rutka,
   I'm assuming since I didn't see the word 'Moni' that you didn't say, "Boy, this Moni is an idiot!" At least I hope not! :P Hope you heal up fast. Sounds pretty intense. Gazuntight!  ;D Moni
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Tribble

2003-2004 -- Gradual transition -- I didn't correct pronouns and people basically settled on the right ones on their own.
late 2004 -- Orchiectomy.
Late 2015 -- Stupidly saw the political climate and spurned on by my husband's request for a divorce I detransitioned.
2019 -- Rebuilding my wardrobe so I can retransition.  Turns out I cain't bury my true self, after all.  I call these last few years my failed experiment.  At least I found my true feelings were real.
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Linde

Rutka, Ik wens je een beter herstel!  Ik hoop dat je snel beter wordt!

That was for sure quite some cutting around on you face!
I think if we do it right, we could try to make some fun about Moni!  Cause as long as she does not see "Moni" in a text, she does not read on!  >:-)
02/22/2019 bi-lateral orchiectomy






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