Quote from: felixtemin on August 04, 2017, 08:47:57 PMSo here are my list of questions
I was in my early 30s when I transitioned, and am now almost 50.
• While on HRT how much did your face change shape? How long did it take?
My face didn't change much at all with hormones. Mostly it improved my skin. It was facial surgery that really was profound.
• I like my shape, does anyone have tips on getting a smaller waist?Other than keeping fit and working the core abdominal muscles to keep them tight, I'd recommend waist-training with a corset.
• The estrogen makes me Horny, and I get great erections (better than before), does everyone loose their ability to get an erection in the end? (not that it matters as it will be gone soon)
• My scrotal and penile skin is sticky/mucousy, is that happening to anyone else?
• Stimulation internally (anal) is amazing and if I concentrate I can orgasm inside vs penile, and get a whole body response.
... after SRS does this still happen, or change?
• How does your new clit feel, in relation to your penis? Phantom erection ?
• Is it easy to achieve orgasm with mastibation?
• After SRS what is vaginal penetration like?
Painful, similar to anal? Is there pleasure from the rubbing of the inverted penis skin or is the pleasure from the prostate being stimulated.
• I love they way my thighs and ass feel, especially when this area rubs against itself. Does that still feel good after SRS?
• Do you "bottom out" during sex, and does it hurt?
• I have seen some great SRS and some not so great. Are there always scars with the inverted method?
• Tell me about sex after SRS. With a guy or a girl.
I didn't get horny on E, and I thank the Goddess for that, as having it all wrong downstairs made me very dysphoric. But I could still make it all work, and did once a month just so I wouldn't lose tissue or sensation. Never had mucousy stuff going on.
I can get whole body orgasms from vaginal penetration, but it took a while (many months) with a regular sex partner after SRS to get there. It's very easy to orgasm by my own hand, clitorally. My clit feels like a clit, but inside my body right under my clit (actually at the dorsal base of it) the sensation of arousal is reminiscent of the before times. Vaginal intercourse doesn't feel like anal at all, imo, except perhaps the feeling of being filled up. I feel pleasure from my vaginal interior being simply touched as well as from special spots receiving attention; those pleasures are different, but complementary. (All this depends on being aroused in the first place, otherwise it's just annoying.)
The only difference of how my thighs and ass feel is if I'm dripping wet, which can make those areas slippery but which soon leads to chafing. There is more feeling between my thighs than before, I believe, simply because I'm configured a bit differently now, and can now easily walk with my legs together.
I've been bottomed out during sex, and it both hurt and felt great at the same, but I'm a masochist so take that with a grain of salt. I have scars, but they are positioned alongside my inner labia and so really aren't visible.
I've had sex with both guys and girls since SRS, and it's definitely been the guys who tickled my fancy. I've found it immensely rewarding, both physically and psychologically. Physically, what I found so striking the day after my first time was how sore I felt, sore and open. The actual feeling of sex is hard to describe! For me, at least, it seems more like the nerves behind the vaginal lining are what's really being stimulated, rather than surface of the tissue. Being opened up really makes me feel, well, open. Receptive, even when squeezing my Kegel muscles.
I can say I love getting face much more than I ever did. It's multi-orgasmic better!
Psychologically, heterosexual intercourse (all with non-disclosure) has been one of the most affirming things I've ever experienced. That first time, I feel like I learned more in five minutes (actually, he went about an hour and a half) than I had in the previous five years. And what I learned was not just about myself.
All my best,
Sophie
