I can't believe we all missed this one...

I couldn't help myself!
The correct response is, "With pleasure, Sweetie."
Okay. Kidding aside. putting my bra on is one of the most affirming actions I take every day. With some bras, T-shirt style pullover is suitable, but I find that most of those types don't give me the definition i like to see. Yet for the most part, the front closures are my favorite, with underwire for the definition of course. My current favorites are 'Glamorize Perfect A' in wireless 46A, 'Glamorize Women's Plus-Size Elegance Front-Close Lace Underwire Bra, Print,' 46B and 'Leading Lady Front Closure Racer Back Underwire,' 46A. My fall back for 10 years has been 'Wacoal Basic Beauty,' in 44C; i simply love the cup shape and the little bow/bauble in the decolletage. I'm a sucker for anything I can find in pink... oh yes. Matching panties preferred.
If they have the 'add a cup size' padding it does help to lean over and adjust. I have a hard time finding bands in my size with cups on the smallish side. Large bands with small cups, sigh. Maybe low dose HRT will add a cup or so. I'm happy with 44C or 46B but given my heavy weight I'm not sure what the result will be when I lose 70lbs.
Her is another question. How come my wife refuses to say she wears 'panties' and says 'I wear underwear, not panties' instead? Things that make me go, 'hmmmmm.'