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What no man knows, nor woman tells

Started by Ann W, April 06, 2019, 10:17:56 PM

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Quote from: HappyMoni on April 14, 2019, 08:33:28 AMI noticed as a woman that guys speak in a softer voice to me than before. (Guys that I know.)

Teller at bank telling male customer at his counter in deep, masculine voice: "Please move over to the side."

(I'm assuming they needed to take care of some business that couldn't be taken care of at the counter and the teller wanted to move the line (me) along.)

Teller to me (full boy-mode)(softens voice and raises pitch): "Come on up!  How can I help you?" with a gentle smile on his face.

The male-fails just keep coming! :D
2003-2004 -- Gradual transition -- I didn't correct pronouns and people basically settled on the right ones on their own.
late 2004 -- Orchiectomy.
Late 2015 -- Stupidly saw the political climate and spurned on by my husband's request for a divorce I detransitioned.
2019 -- Rebuilding my wardrobe so I can retransition.  Turns out I cain't bury my true self, after all.  I call these last few years my failed experiment.  At least I found my true feelings were real.
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sarahann123

Guys definitely speak in a softer voice to me now. At times they also try to tease me like I'm a little girl. I was buying a bottle of water at a convenience store recently and the cashier was teasing me telling me that it was 100 dollars. I'm pretty sure he wouldn't have done that to a male. Another time I was at the car was waiting for my car to come through watching the cars go through the brushes through the glass. A random guy came up to me and asked "did you lose your car?" I giggled it off.

I have mixed emotions because it does feel validating but those aren't positive ways for guys to treat women.

Other women definitely speak differently to me. Purchasing clothing is always fun. As my pieces are being wrung up there always seems to be a comment or conversation about "this cute top", etc.
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