Not really.
I haven't made "being trans" a goal in my life, I try to become myself. I am what I am, and in the present social & political environment, that is called "trans." (And a lot of other things that you probably aren't allowed to say on this site....) I have gotten where and who I am by trying out things to make me more comfortable and more myself and to make things work better.
There are plenty of people who will tell me I'm "doing it wrong", and there have been my whole life, but I have never been able to be what they say I have to be, so I don't argue with them, I just shrug my shoulders and walk away. Or I wait for them to get bored and frustrated and stomp off.
