I had come out to my mom about a month after my wife found out about me being trans (not the way I wanted to come out to my wife btw). So I feared that my mom would find out in a similar manner rather than me telling her. So I decided to come out to her and it went well. I wish I had a better reason to have come out to her other than this is how my wife found out and I didn't want you to hear it from anyone else before I got a chance to tell you myself. Lol
Anyways there has been a few questions I've been wanting to ask my mom since I have accepted I'm different and ready to explore this feminine side of myself that I've been trying to ignore and repress for so long.
One of these questions was if they had any names picked out for me if I was born a girl. Unfortunately she said no, that she knew she was having a boy and that they had only thought of boy names.
So the boy names were Robert, Mark or Micheal.
Robert won, and I go by Robby. But I never liked my name. I and always like Alex, or Mark. Never knew that I could have been names Mark and Mike.
I was hoping for more of a sign or resonance with one of the names and it's female version.
As of right now I still do not have my name yet. I am still Robby. I thought of maybe Robin, and know that I know about Michael, maybe Michelle. But again none of them really resonates with me, like yes that's it.
Next question I'll be working up to ask my mom is what her cup size was since I am 1 of 2 children and .y other sibling was another boy. So my closest female family member is my mother. I wanted to see as to what my potential is for breast growth since they say typically it's 1 to 1.5 cup sizes smaller than your closest female family member. I just don't feel it's all that appropriate for me to ask her that, and I know that's just a rule of thumb most use for hormones and breast growth, and that it probably is not all that accurate and to be taken with a grain of salt.