Good luck Jenn, I hope you find some real closure in the visit.
I have to say, I read your really lovely post with mouth agape. I spent about an hour on the phone with one of my sisters on Tuesday and, for whatever reason, we spent the whole time talking about the passing of both of our parents. For mom it's been almost 10 years now, dad going on four. But afterwards it had me thinking a lot about how they both would have dealt with my "news."
I'm sure that will be a topic of conversation when I tell my sisters, actually. But I think the reason your post struct me as well, is my dad was also in the Korean War.. both my folks were (although mom was a WAC, stationed state-side).
Anyway, as Lori said, we're all with you on that trip. So, you know, pack lots of snacks and juice boxes for us in case we get cranky ❤️😘😉
Love,
Allie