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Reasons for Crossdressing - PLEASE REPLY

Started by Janinea, January 11, 2008, 01:04:01 PM

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Kimberly Kilpatrick

1  Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual?
No
2  Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes?
Yes
3  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman?
yes
4  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue alot?

5  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship?

6  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding / empathetic towards each other?
Yes
7  Did your parents split up?
Yes
8  Are you a good moderator in arguements? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent.
8
9  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends?
Yes
10 If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last?
First
11 Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth?
No
12 Was your father very masculine near your birth?
Yes
13 Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting?
No
14 Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends?
No
15 Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body?
Female trapped
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powertrany

Leave blank if you cannot answer:

1  Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual?
No for the most part. I love to dress and go out in public as the real me, but do like to masturbate while dressed.
2  Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes?
Most of the time
3  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman?
Not escape just comfort
4  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue alot?
NO
5  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship?
NO
6  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding / empathetic towards each other?
Yes very much so
7  Did your parents split up?
Yes after 28 yrs married
8  Are you a good moderator in arguements? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent.
4
9  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends?
NO
10 If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last?
Only child  adpoted
11 Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth?
NO
12 Was your father very masculine near your birth?
NO
13 Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting?
NO  NEVER
14 Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends?
OH yes for sure
15 Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body?
YES
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teema

1...No definitely not

2...Yes,its the female in me that wants out!

3...Not escape no,happiness yes,the more my appearance improves the happier I get.

4...

5...

6...Yes

7...No

8...10

9...Yes I have,i seem to always know what people are thinking,even total strangers.

10...Last

11...

12...

13...No never.

14...Not really.

15...Both male and female at the same time,though lately,the female id becoming much stronger.
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ToniB

1  Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual?
no
2  Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes?
yes
3  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman?
yes
4  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue alot?
yes
5  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship?

6  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding / empathetic towards each other?
yes
7  Did your parents split up?
very nearly
8  Are you a good moderator in arguements? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent.
2
9  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends?
no
10 If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last?
first born
11 Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth?
yes
12 Was your father very masculine near your birth?
yes
13 Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting?
have done in the past "army"
14 Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends?
yes
15 Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body?
female in mans body

The girl inside is just as important expecially to Yourself :)
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Kimberley Beauregard

1)  Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual?

No, it's as close to "being" as I can get without making drastic physical chances.

2) Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes?

Definitely.

3)  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman?

Yes.

4)  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue a lot?

Yes.

5)  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship?

Yes, and throughout my upbringing.

6)  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding/empathetic towards each other?

Definitely.

7)  Did your parents split up?

No.

8)  Are you a good moderator in arguments? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent.

No, but I'm getting better at this.  In fact, my most recent self-defense was assertive and logical without being aggressive.  I generally prefer staying out of arguments.

9)  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends?

No, but I'm slowly improving at this.

10) If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last?

I was born first.

11) Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth?

I only remember her having them when I was five years and over.  I grew up with dysfunctional, physically and emotionally abusive parents.  However, we've made amends and I have peace with my past.

12) Was your father very masculine near your birth?

Not particularly.

13) Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting?

Being in SF sounds awesome but I'm not cut out for that.  I need to start attending jujitsu sessions again.

14) Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends?

I generally get on well with both.

15) Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body?

I go through periods where I feel male and periods where I feel female, but never both.

More specifically, I go through periods where I don't think about my gender so much and periods where I do a lot.  I'm definitely transgender and I'm fine with that.
- Kim
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Sandy74

1  Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual?

A. I think in the past when I was first coming to grips that I enjoyed dressing in female clothing that it was purely sexual and once I would get off then I would take off the clothes right away. Sometimes if I am wearing something like laced or silk panties these days I do get a sexual feeling from it but its more than just that these days and if I do get off I will remain in the clothes until I am ready to go to work or etc.

2  Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes?

A. I know that most times these days I will slip into a pair of panties and tights and a dress and just hang out in my room and watch TV or websurf without feeling any sort of sexual feeling when dressed up, it just feels so much nicer and relaxed than my male clothes that are so boring.

3  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman?

A. I feel a total escape when I am dressed as a woman and that I don't need to deal with my male issues and my boring ass life as a guy. I feel so femme and pretty when I am dressed as a woman and get to be someone else totally

4  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue alot?

A. I am not sure if my parents argued alot but I did know that they slowly driffted apart and my mom decided to skip out on being a mom so she left and moved to California which I lived in Wisconsin and I stayed with my dad.

5  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship?

A. NA

6  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding / empathetic towards each other?

A. I am sure they could have been, I don't think my mom really had the basic tools or understanding on how to be a mother so she esacped and left both of us to go live in CA.

7  Did your parents split up?

A. Yes, they split up when I was around 4 or 5 years old

8  Are you a good moderator in arguements? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent.

A.  2, know I usuaally enjoyed being in arguments with people, kind of twisted I know but somehow I do thrive off them sometimes.


9  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends?

A. I think I have a good insight on how people act and perhaps why they act the way that they do but I am not sure if its anymore obvious than people that I do know.

10 If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last?

A. I was the youngest and I have four older brothers and sisters that were and are my step sibblings

11 Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth?

A. I think she was just a very unstable person even before I was born and has always been.


12 Was your father very masculine near your birth?

A. Yeah I found that my father was always masculine my entire life


13 Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting?

A. I feel like I have done very masculine things in my life because I was always running away from really wanting to be feminine in my life. I was in the US Army for 3 years after High School and I did some deer hunting later on in life until I realized I just wasn't into it and didn't want to kill animals even if I did find one to kill.

14 Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends?

A. I am not really sure because I have always been nervous around women than guys but lately its like I would rather be aroound females than most guys and just like that interaction better these days. I just feel like I am not a threat to them like most guys because I do not want to date them or have sex with them and I just would love to be one of the girls and treated like that as a guy but they don't know the truth about me so I just keep it well hidden.


15 Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body?

A. I have always felt like I was a woman trapped in a males body and still feel that way to this day.
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Dierdre Lenore

1  Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual?
Negative.
2  Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes?
Absolutely.
3  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman?
Almost a welcoming sense of home.
4  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue alot?
Assumable.
5  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship?
Undecided.
6  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding / empathetic towards each other?
Of course.
7  Did your parents split up?
Yes.
8  Are you a good moderator in arguements? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent.
6. Depending on the topic.
9  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends?
Pretty average.
10 If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last?
First.
11 Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth?
I doubt it.
12 Was your father very masculine near your birth?
Yes.
13 Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting?
I do play in all realms.
14 Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends?
Yes.
15 Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body?
I don't feel trapped so much as challenged to figure it all out.
Work it in to work it out!

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SueNZ

Quote from: Janinea on January 11, 2008, 01:04:01 PM
I am studying whether Transvestitism / Crossdressing is genetic in origin. This study is focused on M to F behaviour.

IT IS IMPORTANT THAT YOU FILL OUT THIS SURVEY SO THAT THE REASONS BEHIND THE BEHAVIOUR ARE BETTER UNDERSTOOD[/b
].

Not just understood by you and other TG/TV etc but by society so that it may be more accepted. I need at least a hundred replies to form convincing statistical models. I will let you know the results as soon as I get them. You may lean some things from the survey but I cannot say much more without causing bias.

Leave blank if you cannot answer:

1  Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual?
No.
2  Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes?
Yes, I love the look.
3  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman?
Yes I feel like it's meant to be.
4  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue alot?
No.
5  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship?
No.
6  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding / empathetic towards each other?
Yes.
7  Did your parents split up?
Yes. After their 28th anniversary.
8  Are you a good moderator in arguements? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent.
7.
9  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends?
Yes.
10 If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last?
2nd out of 4 boys.
11 Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth?
No.
12 Was your father very masculine near your birth?
Yes.
13 Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting?
No.
14 Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends?
Yes.
15 Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body?
Part male and part female.

Thanks very much for making the world an easier place to live in... I hope xxx
Treat life's difficult times as if they are normal moments, this makes the normal and special ones even more fantastic.
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EchelonHunt

1  Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual?

It was in the beginning but this has stopped.

2  Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes?

Of course!

3  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman?

It used to be an escape, now it's a comfort.

4  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue alot?

Sometimes.

5  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship?

No.

6  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding / empathetic towards each other?

Sometimes.

7  Did your parents split up?

No. Still together and married.

8  Are you a good moderator in arguements? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent.

I'm neutral towards arguments. I can understand both sides but regardless, like any possible argument, it can turn nasty. I avoid nasty arguments.

9  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends?

I believe I'm more empathetically tuned to others.

10 If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last?

Youngest child.

11 Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth?

Not that I know of.

12 Was your father very masculine near your birth?

He worked on fixing cars, building canopies when I was young, does that count?

13 Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting?

Don't dream of such, the thought of doing those things would be scary. I do collect switchblade knives though because they are shiny and I like shiny things.

14 Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends?

God yeah.

15 Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body?

I desire to have a female-androgynous presentation, male body and genderless soul.
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suzannemarie

1. somewhat . it  was initially but i am started to just enjoy it non-sexually
2. Yes
3.yes
4. no
5.no
6.not sure
7.yes
8. mostly neutral
9. yes
10. i have an older sister
11. no
12. not that i know of
13.not really
14. yes
15. part male/part female
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Sttefanne Camp

1. No
2. Yes
3. Yes, best would be "freedom"
4. No
5. No
6. No
7. No
8. Yes, 8 (about crossdressing 10)
9. Yes, sometimes
10. I have sisters. I born first
11. No
12. Yes
13. Yes
14. Yes
15. Part male and part female



I hope I have contributed...  ;)

SarahVA

I see this is an old post but seems to still be active....I figured I would reply, saying things and writing them helps to confirm my thoughts...

Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual?  Not at all.  Might have been a little at some times, but the sexual component was more to "act like a girl" then being stimulated by dressing.
2  Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes?  Most always.
3  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman?  More a sense of "normalcy."
4  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue alot?  No
5  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship?  No
6  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding / empathetic towards each other?  No
7  Did your parents split up?  No
8  Are you a good moderator in arguements? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent.  5
9  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends?   sometimes
10 If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last?  first
11 Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth?  have no idea
12 Was your father very masculine near your birth? yes
13 Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting?  nope, none of those
14 Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends?  yes, definitely women
15 Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body?  yes, frequently
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Jen682

1  Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual?
MOSTLY
2  Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes?
  YES
3  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman?
YES
4  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue alot?
DON'T KNOW. 
5  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship?
DON'T KNOW
6  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding / empathetic towards each other?
YES
7  Did your parents split up?
YES, AT AGE 7
8  Are you a good moderator in arguements? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent.
NO  3
9  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends?
NO
10 If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last?
YOUNGEST (2 OLDER SISTERS)
11 Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth?
NO
12 Was your father very masculine near your birth?
I BELIEVE SO, ALTHOUGH HE WAS AN ALCOHOLIC
13 Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting?
YES, I HAVE DONE THEM
14 Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends?
YES
15 Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body?
NO

Jen
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whorton59

I was looking back and ran across this threat.   Was there ever a summerization of their findings, or any publication of data derived? I never saw that the original inquiring poster never posted again. . .

Thoughts?
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ToniB

[

1  Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual? No
2  Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes? Always
3  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman? Yes
4  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue a lot? D/K
5  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship? D/K
6  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding / empathetic towards each other? D/K
7  Did your parents split up? No
8  Are you a good moderator in arguements? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent. 4
9  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends? Yes
10 If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last? First 3 Sisters
11 Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth? D/K
12 Was your father very masculine near your birth? Yes
13 Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting? Yes ex forces
14 Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends? Yes
15 Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body? Female trapped in a Mans body

Thanks very much for making the world an easier place to live in... I hope xxx
[/quote]
The girl inside is just as important expecially to Yourself :)
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freakynerd

1  Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual?
primarily
2  Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes?
yes
3  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman?
yes
4  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue alot?

5  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship?

6  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding / empathetic towards each other?
yes
7  Did your parents split up?
no
8  Are you a good moderator in arguements? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent.
7
9  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends?
yes
10 If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last?

11 Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth?

12 Was your father very masculine near your birth?

13 Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting?
no
14 Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends?
no
15 Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body?
no
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Dayta

1  Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual? - No. 
2  Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes? - Yes, exclusively. 
3  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman? - No. 
4  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue a lot? - Not that I recall, but I was very young at birth. 
5  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship? - Not that I recall, but in retrospect I think she was somewhat manipulative. 
6  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding / empathetic towards each other? - Yes.
7  Did your parents split up? - No, remarkably, despite their best efforts. 
8  Are you a good moderator in arguements? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent. - 7
9  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends? - Yes, I believe so. 
10 If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last? - 2nd of 5  (all sisters, but three with decidedly masculine manners or characteristics)
11 Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth? - I don't recall events prior to my birth, after, again I don't remember, but I never heard anything like that. 
12 Was your father very masculine near your birth? - Yes, as far as I know, although he seems to hide a gentle side. 
13 Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting?  Not really, no.
14 Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends? - Yes, well I feel more comfortable anyway.  They (male friends) might say that I get along better with them than I perceive I do. 
15 Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body? - Yes, I do sense a female aspect to me. 




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Kerry30Den

1  Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual? - Not at all
2  Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes? - Yes, quite often.  I work from home and pefer to do so in a skirt. 
3  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman? - Not an escape, but I feel calm and centered. 
4  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue a lot? - No idea about arguing but they weren't together long... bio dad left when I was a month old. 
5  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship? - My mom has always been a pretty dominant figure though.
6  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding / empathetic towards each other? - Probably, but like I said he left.
7  Did your parents split up? - Yes... Mom lived with women until I was about 8.
8  Are you a good moderator in arguements? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent. 8-9
9  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends? - Yes, I'm able to read people pretty well.  Wish I could read myself that well.
10 If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last? - 3 half brothers who I've never met.  I'm 2nd oldest though.
11 Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth? - Mom had bad endometreiosis and I said that she had PMS DMS and AMS (pre, during, and after).  She smoked and my cousins can I called her the Dragon Lady.  Yeah, she had pretty violent mood swings that went away after her inner lady bits were removed.
12 Was your father very masculine near your birth? - No idea.
13 Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting? I am an avid shooter and do masculine things quite a bit.  Its a balance thing for me... to much of either side and I start feeling funny.
14 Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends? - Yes I do, though I do have a couple guy friends I get along quite well with.
15 Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body? - I feel like both are living inside and have found a way to coexist.  At 43 I've found a balance that works and going too far either way wouldn't work for me.
Happily married CD, out to my wife and select friends.
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Deborah

1  Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual?

No

2  Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes?

Now,  always non-sexual.  When I still had really high testosterone levels sometimes it turned sexual.

3  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman?

No

4  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue alot?

I don't think so.

5  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship?

Not that I know of.

6  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding / empathetic towards each other?

No

7  Did your parents split up?

No

8  Are you a good moderator in arguements? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent.

8

9  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends?

Yes, definitely.

10 If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last?

Second, although the first died at birth.

11 Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth?

I don't know.  But she was prone to angry mood swings sometimes.

12 Was your father very masculine near your birth?

Yes

13 Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting?

I was an Army Paratrooper and Ranger.

14 Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends?

I'm not sure.

15 Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body?

The second.  MTF transsexual.


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cheryl reeves

Like another poster said did this person come too some sort of answer? I read others replies and we are all over the map,the majority of responses are favoring first born especially the 40-on up. I decided too answer this myself and add my two cents.




(quote)
Leave blank if you cannot answer:

1  Is your urge to crossdress purely sexual?

Yes and no, like any woman I'm a sexual being,if I'm in lingerie yes, dresses and skirts depends on my mood and how I feel sexually at the time.

2  Do you dress as a woman for non-sexual reasons sometimes?

Dressing for me is normal, I dress most days on how I feel and my wifes mood at the time, my wife accepts this but she has her days like we all do.
3  Do you feel a sense of escape when you are dressed as a woman?

Nope,I feel normal,too me its more then the clothes.
4  Around the time of your birth did your parents argue alot?
N/a
5  Around the time of your birth did either parent seek psychological dominance in their relationship?

Nope they were each their own person, and loved each other,though my mom controlled the money issue, he had his, she had hers, but she controlled the household finances.
6  Would you say your parents could be or could have been more understanding / empathetic towards each other?
They were fine the way they were for it made me and my sisters who were are survivors.
7  Did your parents split up?
My dad died 4 months before their 17th anniversary, I was 11 days from being 16,and it hit us hard, but allowed me too start experimenting more with my fem side.
8  Are you a good moderator in arguements? Please score 1-10, ten as excellent.
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9  Would you say you have a good insight into how people think - more so than your friends?
Yes, its from yrs of reading books and studying people so I could try and act male or female, for I'm caught between genders and don't really know how to be male or female.
10 If you have brothers or sisters were you born first, middle or last?
First born ,have 3 younger sisters, I have a half brother from a previous marriage my dad had.
11 Did your mother have violent mood swings near your birth?
Her violent mood swings came in when we did something wrong, we learned not to repeat the same mistake again.
12 Was your father very masculine near your birth?
My dad was very masculine and tried too make me a boy, he knew I had too learn to be strong because I was different from the other boys for I related more to girls.
13 Have you ever dreamt of doing, or would you like to do very masculine things, such as be in special forces, kung fu, boxing, shooting?
I have done almost every masculine thing out there.
14 Would you say you get on better with women than your heterosexual men friends?
I get along better with females,never really like being around males, with one exception I lost a friend 1yr ago who was like a brother too me,he was the only one real male friend I had. Too this day I still don't have friends for I don't fit in anywhere.
15 Do you feel either part male and part female or as a female trapped in a mans body?
I'm not trapped, I've always been female, the male side has always been an act, which I kinda got good at.

Thanks very much for making the world an easier place to live in... I hope xxx
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Theirs my 2 cents
Cheryl
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