Thank you Chrissy and Claire.
Chrissy, I don't blame anyone, neither God or Mother Nature. I just sometimes think the last two quoted may have a weird sense of humor making the container so masculine while in the same time making the content so craving for femininity. :-) I try just like you to have a good day and to make the best of it. But at the same time, I'm wondering if, becoming the real me, lots of difficulties I'm experiencing in my life, coming from the first one, loving myself, would hopefully find some soothing. Like you I will have to find my own way, as a man, a trans woman, or as I will find the best suited for me. Meanwhile, I surely don't forget to help other, even if time has come to help me too.
Claire, I like your avatar, so right to illustrate our respective situations yet. I never been suicidal too, but like I said, I'm wondering if some of the problems I had in the past, and for some of them still have, are not directly linked to the will to harm myself coming from my gender issues. Some "suicide" in disguise in some less definitive ways. I wish you to find your way. Like you I'm afraid to find that clarity. I'm more and more convinced I will have to confront it, and try to end the fight as the winner.
Stéphanie, X X