I don't have an issue with the first question. It refers to a historical event (at birth) that we had no control over, and who we are now.
However, question number two is nobody's business, especially the government. What happens behind closed doors should stay behind closed doors, and does not need to become part of the public record. People change their sexual preferences all the time. Some might drift between straight, bi, to gay/lesbian, and back and forth. NOBODY's business.