A thought about being 'outed' at work and elsewhere. I have resigned myself to fact that I always will be outed. While being 100% stealth has it's appeal, and people telling others about me even if they didn't know bothers me, the fact is I am not 100% passing. I hit the whole gray zone spread of woman, to maybe-maybe not, to man. Responses to me have had some negatives, however, it has been mostly positive. I think of myself as the quiet activist. I don't run around 'demanding' (not right word but all I could think of) acceptance. I do purport mysself in a civil manner anf people respond to that. Let them see someone just living life and enjoying it. They seem to respond better to that.
Anyway, work, I have no idea who knows, doesn't know, or suspects. I simply don't worry about it.