The size of one's breasts is often emphasized in media and popular culture, but it doesn't actually matter for several reasons. People have different preferences and levels of comfort with their bodies. What matters most is that you feel comfortable and confident in your own skin. Beauty is subjective, and what one person finds attractive, another may not. True beauty comes from a combination of qualities, including personality, kindness, and confidence. Your self confidence should come from within and not be based on your appearance.
Different cultures have different standards of beauty. What is considered attractive in one culture may not be in another. Our western media often portrays a narrow and unrealistic standard of beauty. It's important to recognize that these portrayals are often not reflective of real life. In genuine, healthy relationships, partners value each other for much more than physical appearance. Qualities like trust, respect, shared values, and emotional connection are far more significant. Ultimately, everyone's body is unique, and appreciating and caring for your body as it is can lead to greater happiness and self-acceptance.
I do get it though.. A few years ago I was literally moaning to my then therapist that not only would I 'Never pass' but my breasts seemed stuck at a C cup.. my female therapist looked at me.. and said .. 'oh, oh, I only have an A cup.. I guess I don't pass then'.. I never noticed, really - but yeah, she was quite small and she is very tall too.. it never stopped her living life or having 3 kids or a relationship that is over 50 years strong and still going.. That is when I realised the futility of 'passing'. it is not an aspiration. Earlier in our conversation she told me how she gets called sir on the phone. We talked about our facial hair problems..
I have a new mantra - 'If you are trying to pass, you are trying too hard' just be you and enjoy being you. After all that is what transition is all about, or should be.