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Started by Lori Dee, February 23, 2024, 09:53:26 AM

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ChrissyRyan

It is wise to stay within a planned spending habit.
Many people go off of it. It is sad when medical issues cause that.

It is not sad but rather foolish when people live beyond their means for only self pleasing reasons.

Buy when you save up.  There will be future sales too, there is very little need to not wait because of a retail deal.

Cars are problematic.  Older ones are cheaper in the long run and easier to repair, to an extent, if in good condition and no rust.  But used car prices are not low.  Deals abound in new cars are they are harder to sell now than good used cars.  Or so they say.

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Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Lori Dee

I have been able to get good deals toward the end of the year. This Fall, dealerships will be trying to clear out the 2024 models to make room for shiny new 2025s. That means good deals on 2023s and 2022s that are still new. Back in 2000, I traded a Ford conversion van I had customized for two (his & hers) 1998 Dodge Daytonas. This year, I want to upgrade my Jeep Patriot for a Grand Cherokee. That will give me a more powerful engine and more room in the back. The Patriot (4-cylinder) doesn't have the power to climb hills and I need something to get me where I need to go so I don't have to hike as far. It will be more spendy on gas, but it will save wear and tear on my knees. Getting old sucks.
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Lori Dee

Acceptance in any form is always a blessing.

My next-door neighbor went through a bitter divorce recently. His son would often wave to me from his apartment window or we would say hello in the hallway. Since the divorce, he has lived with his mother and only occasionally visits his dad. His uncle often brings the boy and his cousin for a visit on the weekends.

I was out this morning for a walk and as I was entering, this young man held the door for me. He opened his arms offering me a hug and said, "It's been a long time!" We hugged and he introduced me to his young female cousin and chatted about what he has been up to recently.

This kid has no agenda and does not see me as male or female, just the friendly neighbor next door. I hope he never outgrows it. He is a great kid who is always a pleasure to have around.
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Quote from: Lori Dee on August 04, 2024, 10:28:58 AMI have been able to get good deals toward the end of the year. This Fall, dealerships will be trying to clear out the 2024 models to make room for shiny new 2025s. That means good deals on 2023s and 2022s that are still new. Back in 2000, I traded a Ford conversion van I had customized for two (his & hers) 1998 Dodge Daytonas. This year, I want to upgrade my Jeep Patriot for a Grand Cherokee. That will give me a more powerful engine and more room in the back. The Patriot (4-cylinder) doesn't have the power to climb hills and I need something to get me where I need to go so I don't have to hike as far. It will be more spendy on gas, but it will save wear and tear on my knees. Getting old sucks.

Three other tips when car buying that will help you tremendously with getting the best deal:

1. Always go in to buy the last couple of days of a month. Dealerships have quotas. They're always looking to hit them so they're much more amenable in the days before their numbers are locked.

2. Be flexible and prepared to take a car off the lot. Buying from a dealer's inventory is also an incentive for them to sell at a the lowest possible price.

3. Research and find ACTUAL dealer cost. Negotiate from THAT number. Once a dealer knows you're well informed, and ready to take on premise inventory at the end of a month? They're happy to make a few hundred off of you... and make more money off the next person who walks through the door.



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Lori Dee

I learned # 3 from wife # 2. Before she passed away, she worked as a bookkeeper at a car dealership for a few years. That is the same advice she gave. She was with me when we negotiated the trade of my van for his & her Daytonas. She got the purple one with a T-top and automatic, I got the one with a stick shift because she couldn't drive a stick. She was instrumental in negotiating that trade.

Good advice, thank you!
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Lori Dee

I was thinking about my encounter with my neighbor's kid. He is about ten, so like 1/5th my age. That reminded me of an interesting math problem.

Here goes (don't make it creepy):

A 40-year-old man meets a 10-year-old girl. He is 4 times older than she is. (4x10=40).

Five years later, she is 15 and he is 45. He is only 3 times older than she. (3x15=45).

Fifteen years later, she is 30 and he is 60. He is only twice as old as she. (2x30=60).

How long until they are the same age?
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ChrissyRyan

Quote from: Lori Dee on August 04, 2024, 03:43:08 PMI was thinking about my encounter with my neighbor's kid. He is about ten, so like 1/5th my age. That reminded me of an interesting math problem.

Here goes (don't make it creepy):

A 40-year-old man meets a 10-year-old girl. He is 4 times older than she is. (4x10=40).

Five years later, she is 15 and he is 45. He is only 3 times older than she. (3x15=45).

Fifteen years later, she is 30 and he is 60. He is only twice as old as she. (2x30=60).

How long until they are the same age?

They will never be the same age, of course.


Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Lori Dee

"I woke last night to the sound of thunder
How far off I sat and wondered
Started humming a song from nineteen sixty-two... "

Neighbor yelled at me to shut up.
So I went back to bed.

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The past week has been hot with temperatures hovering near 100. Yesterday the humidity joined in as a prelude to last night's storm.

I was chatting with a new tenant who just moved into our apartment building. She said she was from Alabama. She commented that she did not move this far north just to have more Alabama weather.

I said, "Welcome to the Upper Midwest where we have everyone's weather except our own."

The marquis across the street says it is 61 and sunny. It is pouring rain. < sigh >
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Northern Star Girl

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Dear Lori:
Seriously your neighbor yelled at you to shut up? ???

Were you singing especially loud or did you and your neighbor have your windows open???

HUGS, Danielle 
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Quote from: Lori Dee on August 06, 2024, 10:04:34 AM"I woke last night to the sound of thunder
How far off I sat and wondered
Started humming a song from nineteen sixty-two... "

Neighbor yelled at me to shut up.
So I went back to bed.

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The past week has been hot with temperatures hovering near 100. Yesterday the humidity joined in as a prelude to last night's storm.

I was chatting with a new tenant who just moved into our apartment building. She said she was from Alabama. She commented that she did not move this far north just to have more Alabama weather.

I said, "Welcome to the Upper Midwest where we have everyone's weather except our own."

The marquis across the street says it is 61 and sunny. It is pouring rain. < sigh >

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Lori Dee

Quote from: Northern Star Girl on August 06, 2024, 04:43:32 PMSeriously your neighbor yelled at you to shut up? ???

Were you singing especially loud or did you and your neighbor have your windows open???

Especially thin walls.
The trials and tribulations of an apartment dweller.  ;D
 
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ChrissyRyan

Lori said, "Started humming a song from nineteen sixty-two... "

Neighbor yelled at me to shut up.
So I went back to bed."


Really?   It much soundproofing between walls?  And/or What loudness level did you set the speakers for your karaoke? 


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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ChrissyRyan

Quote from: davina61 on August 07, 2024, 03:36:47 AMWhen the flat below's washing machine goes on spin and I am sat on my sofa it turns into a massage chair!!

Amazing.
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Lori Dee

Earlier, I was chatting with a friend here about makeup. Over the years, I have tried various wig styles and colors. Some worked and some... not so much. In reviewing some photos I have taken I noticed how a subtle nuance can make a big difference. Generally, I do my makeup the same way and even stick to the same palette. With a warm-colored skin tone, you want warm colors, or like me with cool-colored skin, a cool palette of blues and greens. But for hair, it can be the opposite (as you will see). With a cool skin tone, warm blondes and reds seem to work well, but cool gray/silver not so much.

Another difference is lighting. The way you look in your makeup mirror is not the same as how you look in the bathroom mirror, or sitting in your car or office. Small things like false lashes, sunglasses, jewelry, and such can change the way you look and even make you look younger or older.

So here are some pictures of me since coming out in 2019.


FaceApp was used to give me more prominent cheekbones, but sadly it washed out the color of my hair. It gave me an idea of what look I wanted and how to achieve that with makeup.


October 2021 - Same hair - my favorite wig. I struggled with droopy eyelids and eventually had surgery to fix them.


Both of these were taken on May 19, 2022. Notice the difference? On the right, false lashes and sunglasses hide the top of my head making my head look smaller. The lighting is different too: bathroom light vs sitting in my Jeep.


November 2022 - same hair, lashes, and makeup. No sunglasses. The look is similar because the lighting is similar.


January 2023 - going to a New Year's Day party. The makeup is a bit heavy up close, but from a distance, it looks good.


January 17, 2023 - Makeup toned down. Just enough coverage on the face and a little eyeliner.


August 11, 2023 - Camping in the Black Hills, so no wigs. Makeup is a bare minimum, mostly sunscreen. The forest lighting was very kind and helped hide my "old lady wrinkles".


The next day, August 12, 2023 - Rockhounding out at Teepee Canyon. Again minimal makeup, and sunscreen as a coverup. I think the commonality between this one and the previous one is both were taken outdoors in the morning when the sun was not so harsh.


August 25, 2023 - the start of a Steampunk Halloween costume that never transpired. The buckles are silver and the buckles on my boots are gold. I was also done with this wig. It was human hair, so required styling after every wash. My hair grew long enough to be a pain to wear under this wig and remain comfortable. So I donated the wig to a friend of a friend.


October 12, 2023 - Makeup again a bit on the heavy side, but not bad from a distance.


Taken the same day, but indoors. Different wig - A new topper (that doesn't match my hair color).


December 4, 2023 - my favorite wig again. This pic shows the color much better. Sadly, it is wearing out and I have not been able to find this one again. My stylist attempted to recreate the look by coloring my hair like this and a matching topper. That did not go well.


December 26, 2023 - I toned the topper to correct for the brassiness (see the pic up a couple) But I overcooked it and it turned gray. I decided to embrace the gray and colored my hair to match (Nice N Easy 8S Silver Gray). Better, but I am so over the gray bit.


Same day - Back to one of my older wigs. Add a touch of eye shadow and it's a whole new look.

I don't have any pics from 2024 yet. I'll wait until I see what the new Raquel Welch wig catalogs have to offer, and then I'll add to this album.

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ChrissyRyan

Lori,

You are pretty.

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

Lori Dee

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ChrissyRyan

#496
I continually find so interesting that the same woman can have such a variety of looks by changing a few things here and there. 

You look great in every pose.

Chrissy
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Lori Dee

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on August 07, 2024, 06:35:26 PMI continually find I so interesting that the same woman can have such a variety of looks by changing a few things here and there. 

Thanks, Chrissy. That's the point I was trying to make.

Very often when feeling dysphoric we try different things and somehow we just don't see ourselves. Then that one thing, that one subtle difference pulls it all together and then we see it. It's fun to experiment with different looks. You never know what you might discover.
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ChrissyRyan

Quote from: Lori Dee on August 07, 2024, 07:48:30 PMThanks, Chrissy. That's the point I was trying to make.

Very often when feeling dysphoric we try different things and somehow we just don't see ourselves. Then that one thing, that one subtle difference pulls it all together and then we see it. It's fun to experiment with different looks. You never know what you might discover.

Lori,

Do you have a favorite look from all the photos you posted above?

Chrissy


Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Lori Dee

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on August 07, 2024, 08:33:49 PMLori,

Do you have a favorite look from all the photos you posted above?

Chrissy

My profile pic is my favorite, but I want to get back to the strawberry blonde long curly wig if I can find a replacement.

This one:

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