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Started by Lori Dee, February 23, 2024, 09:53:26 AM

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Sephirah

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 10, 2025, 06:01:21 PMI had a house with a pantry. Well, it was a broom closet when I moved in. I renovated the entire kitchen down to the wiring and insulation. The broom closet ended up with pull-out shelves for canned goods, and baskets at the bottom for potatoes, onions, and such. The inside of the door was lined with small shelves that became a spice rack. That was a lot of fun to build.

That's what weirds me out, Lori. The first person I ever had a conversation with was fixated on window taxes. Which were a thing in the UK, around the time your country was born. We got taxed because our houses had too many windows.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Window_tax

Nice to see people haven't changed in a couple hundred years...
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Quote from: Sephirah on April 10, 2025, 06:14:50 PMThat's what weirds me out, Lori. The first person I ever had a conversation with was fixated on window taxes. Which were a thing in the UK, around the time your country was born. We got taxed because our houses had too many windows.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Window_tax

Nice to see people haven't changed in a couple hundred years...

Yeah, none of us could understand it either. So we sailed across the ocean and started our own country, without Window Taxes.  ;D
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Sephirah

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 10, 2025, 06:30:51 PMYeah, none of us could understand it either. So we sailed across the ocean and started our own country, without Window Taxes.  ;D

Little did ye know that a couple hundred years down the road you'd be hit with intelligence tax... ;D
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ChrissyRyan

Regarding Windows taxes, yes, I agree Windows can be taxing, especially Windows 11.

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Quote from: ChrissyRyan on April 09, 2025, 11:24:59 AMWell conventional loan mortgage rates for 30 year loans have advanced to an average of 7.000% APR.


Well the rate has creeped over 7.1%.  It has been worse but higher rates will make houses harder to afford for many.
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Lori Dee

I think I could save enough for a down payment, but honestly, I would rather spend that kind of money on my surgery. Decisions. Decisions.  ;D
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Mrs. Oliphant

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 11, 2025, 01:45:08 PMDecisions. Decisions.  ;D
I certainly can't give any advice regarding such monumental decisions. But I have no doubt that whatever decision you make will be best for you. As for me, I love gingham curtains, so, the more windows, the better (the smaller the decision, the better I am at making it).
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ChrissyRyan

Lori,

Wherever you choose to live, try to get a safe place.  I mean safe for everyone, not just "safer  for transgender folks."  Some housing areas seem to be more prone to crime.

There are some areas where renters do not take very much care of the owner's property.  Then again, there are landlords that do not upkeep the property.  Try to avoid either type of residential area.


Chrissy

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Thanks, Chrissy.

I plan to take a scouting trip to drive the neighborhoods to see which ones I might be interested in and which ones are a definite NO.

Then I will make another trip in June to look at specific houses and maybe make an offer.
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Emma1017



Hey Lori, I would like to share some thoughts. 

1. Get the surgery done.  Healing when you are younger is faster plus you will be "you" faster. 

2. Rent before you buy.  The old adage was "why pay rent when it can go to your mortgage?" and it
   can be wrong for many reasons: Lori you have a lot of life-changing things in motion, in a world
   that is also rapidly changing, renting is like change insurance.  Let things settle down before
   you commit large chunks of capital.  Also, be aware that the new home is exposed to capital risk, like
   fire, flood, or just a new furnace.  Keep liquid and keep flexible through these changes.

3. Video every neighborhood and house visit.  The camera will see more than you, and then you can run it
   back as much as you need to see all the details, like water stains or infestation.  It also tapes what
   the salespeople say so you can listen to it later (it may also catch a few lies or major details that
   they overlook).

These are just some thoughts that I hope you find useful on your amazing journey!


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Lori Dee

Thanks, Emma. That's good advice.

I was thinking along similar lines. I have rented houses before and the landlords seem to appreciate someone who can do basic maintenance, like leaky faucets, so they don't have to call a repairman. And I don't mind doing it if it is something within my skill set. After all, it is my home too.
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Emma1017



You're the perfect tenant Lori!

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Lori Dee

I found a new home for my leather (faux) bar stools and a bookcase. It's a few more things I don't need to pack and frees some space. Maybe I need more rocks! ;D

Murphy's Law # 17: "Stuff expands to fill the space available."

I also figured out that if I pack said "stuff" into a black trash bag, there are three large dumpsters where I can "store" it. I think I have become my mom. I have way too many empty containers.

While gold prospecting, I saved my prescription bottles. When I would sample new areas, if I found gold in the sample, I would put it in a bottle, and then label the bottle with the sample number. When I got home, I would take the sample, look it over under the stereoscope, and record what type of gold it was. Over time, this gave me a bigger picture of what gold was where and I would plot that in Google Earth.

The problem, it seems, is I never threw the bottles away as they could be reused. I just threw away 50 or so empty prescription bottles. Hoard much?

At least that emptied out a couple of cabinets. Progress is being made.
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Mrs. Oliphant

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 12, 2025, 02:05:34 PMWhen I got home, I would take the sample, look it over under the stereoscope, and record what type of gold it was. Over time, this gave me a bigger picture of what gold was where and I would plot that in Google Earth.
Ingenious approach, Lori! My father was an obsessed prospector. He plotted the shoreline of Lake Missoula (an ice age lake that flooded the entire northwest when the ice dam broke) and pulled samples from likely looking places along the calculated shoreline. Sometimes, he found gold. As for me, I love to see a flash in the pan but not enough to hoard prescription bottles.
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Quote from: Mrs. Oliphant on April 12, 2025, 02:46:48 PMIngenious approach, Lori! My father was an obsessed prospector. He plotted the shoreline of Lake Missoula (an ice age lake that flooded the entire northwest when the ice dam broke) and pulled samples from likely looking places along the calculated shoreline. Sometimes, he found gold. As for me, I love to see a flash in the pan but not enough to hoard prescription bottles.

Starting around 2010, I would spend all winter researching old gold claims, mining and geology maps, and old mining journals. I would plot 100-125 locations on the map throughout the Black Hills. Then when summer came, I would drive to each location and do a test sample. Then on to the next.

As my knowledge of the area grew, I was able to narrow down my search to a smaller area. That left more time for panning and camping versus driving all over. I moved here in 2015 and had narrowed my search to a single creek. Then I did the same thing, walking the shoreline and looking things over. I had the most success at 5 -15' off the shore toward the middle of the creek, so that was the line I followed downstream.

One day, my buddy and I had packed up and we went back to my truck with gear in tow in a metal garden cart. There was an old prospector in the parking lot and we had a chance to talk. He co-owns a 60-acre hard rock claim up near Mystic, SD.

He told me that back in the 50s he was a fur trapper in that area. He knows every inch of that creek very well. In 1972, we had a raging flood that destroyed Rapid City. In 1973, we had a drought. He said the creek water was so low, it was barely a trickle. He saw gold in the cracks in the bedrock but had no tools with him to go after it.

He showed me exactly where it was, but over the years mud and sand have buried it. He said that to his knowledge no one has ever dug in that spot. Because of the way the water flows in that part of the stream, I wasn't able to get to it. The water was too deep. So I sampled upstream to locate the source. I never found the source, but I found plenty of deep pockets to keep me busy each year.

One year, we had another bad drought. The water was low enough that I could dig where he showed me. I dug a hole up to my hips and I still had not hit bedrock. It was deeper than what either of us estimated. Someday maybe I'll hire a team of young studs to go out there and dig up the whole bottom.

Right. Wishful thinking.  ;D
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Mrs. Oliphant

Quote from: Lori Dee on April 12, 2025, 03:48:26 PMSomeday maybe I'll hire a team of young studs to go out there and dig up the whole bottom.
I was never stud, but if I was still young, I would love to be part of that adventure. Heck, my father would be somewhere near Mystic right now if he read post and wasn't dead. It's definitely in the blood.
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It is definitely a lot of hard work. I still plan to do some prospecting after I move to Colorado. But I seriously doubt I will put as much time and effort into it like I used to. It's not about the pay off, it is the thrill of the hunt!

I know of a few places where people go to pan gold every day. One is in downtown Denver. I used to take my dad there when I would visit. But every time we went, there were a lot of people working the stream. They still find gold there. I just don't like the crowds.
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Sephirah

Perfect time to move to the UK... just sayin' <3
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Mrs. Oliphant

Quote from: Sephirah on April 12, 2025, 06:07:58 PMPerfect time to move to the UK..
Great idea, Lor! Perhaps a two-bedroom flat. Depending on your tolerance for snoring.
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Sephirah

Quote from: Mrs. Oliphant on April 12, 2025, 06:49:06 PMGreat idea, Lor! Perhaps a two-bedroom flat. Depending on your tolerance for snoring.

When I sleep, a literal earthquake couldn't wake me up, lol. I don't think I have ever heard anyone snore. I'm half convinced its a myth. :P
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