Post GRS Regrets

[Wing Walker]

All this BS of, "I'm going to kill myself if I don't transition" and "life isn't worth living if I don't transition" is, always has been, and always will be, straight up BS.

Life is always worth living.  From the jews that toughed it through the concentration camps to the Native Americans who had to deal with the european small pox and watching their entire population whither to near nothingness, to the African slaves who watched their families being ripped away from them to serve a life of humiliation and suffering, to the women in the middle east who are forcefully castrated, often with uncleanly methods, to the little gay guy getting raped in an ally by a hateful group of redneck bigots, and yes, YES YES YES YES YES, to the whiny little transsexual who needs to take a look at the good things in life instead of focusing on the bad.

End of story nothing more nother less don't confuse the issue with more emotional insecurity!  Life is always worth living, PERIOD.

That's a lot of big talk coming from one who couldn't live up to his obligation to join the U.S. Marine Corps.  I wonder how such a tough guy would have done in basic training.

WW

Wing Walker

[Jordan]

All this BS of, "I'm going to kill myself if I don't transition" and "life isn't worth living if I don't transition" is, always has been, and always will be, straight up BS.

Life is always worth living.  From the jews that toughed it through the concentration camps to the Native Americans who had to deal with the european small pox and watching their entire population whither to near nothingness, to the African slaves who watched their families being ripped away from them to serve a life of humiliation and suffering, to the women in the middle east who are forcefully castrated, often with uncleanly methods, to the little gay guy getting raped in an ally by a hateful group of redneck bigots, and yes, YES YES YES YES YES, to the whiny little transsexual who needs to take a look at the good things in life instead of focusing on the bad.

End of story nothing more nother less don't confuse the issue with more emotional insecurity!  Life is always worth living, PERIOD.

Screw you MAN, you have no idea what its like to sit there and think your some kind of freak, a outcast from all walks of life, and that all the harm you are doing to your family and especially the girl you love more than anything is in vain and that your the one to blame and that everything going on in your life would be better if you were dead, it comes to down to the fact that all the ->-bleeped-<-tyness going on around you is your fault and sadly its true, because we are the ones changing, we are causing the harm to the peoples around us and thats why people who are trans attempt suicide.

I dont know of any JEWS, OR BLACKS, OR Muslim women who think oh this happening because of me, NO they say some ->-bleeped-<- is doing this for a F'ed UP reason and thats why they continue to live on, whereas there are many days where I feel the world would be a lot better off WITHOUT ME.

SO SHUT YOUR HOLE

And even though I know I am gonna dropped in rep, banned, or have this post editied it was worth it, I just snap when people are ignorant, unsightfull, or unsupportive of others in their same situation.

BTW KALT I would appreciate it if you stop hitting on me on myspace, well I guess that doesnt matter cause I'm Unfriending you.

[Kelli]

I rarely say anything these days, but you're posts have given me a reason to post. Judging by your very black and white mindset, you've never felt hopeless. You've never felt complete and utter despair.

Apparently, even when you're in a highly emotional state, YOU have absolutely logical and rational thought processes.

Emotions aren't like that. Emotions don't always allow for completely rational thought. YES, there is PLENTY to live for in life. I completely agree with that. But when we're in a state where we're hurting and FEELING things that are unimaginably painful, rational thought doesn't always prevail.

I understand some of your viewpoint. There IS indeed a whole hell of a lot to stay alive for.

But geez, have a little compassion. No one likes a cold-hearted person.

[cindybc]

Hi Rachael I again agree with you, I went through enough crap and it's a miracle I'm still here now.
I to feel blessed to be where I am today. I have paid my dues to get here. Actually I believe there are many here that should get the hero's medallion and a hero's medallion. See I have really pretty darn near read every thread on this board and it is not hard to find another that experienced their own little corner of West Hell..

Cindy

[kalt]

Wtf people, everyone is here supporting this girl for saying that people shouldn't look at the brighter side of life and should just kill themselves if their circumstances aren't ideal.
I'm over here getting bitched at and smited left and right because I'm trying to make a stand to find some kind of inner strength.  What kind of place is this?  The "dogma" of this place seems to be that anyone who isn't entirely sympathetic and rushes to fit into the stereotypical suicidal transition or not trans is not welcome.

BYE.  I'm sick of these forums and am going to take a break for a while.  Kill yourselves for all I care now, I though I saw good at one time in this site and all I see is hatred and bigotry, the same kind that you complain about the rest of the world having.

[Rachael]

um, actually i was defending the fact that people CAN have bad transitions... not that if you dont your not trans ....
you have absolutely no sympathy, or human emotion kalt, inners steanth is brilliant. but its like trying to move a ship with one tug.... unfocused, that strenth is useless.... in the right place, it makes all the difference.
your 'happy happy pull yourself together attitude is useless... depressed people simply cant 'snap out of it'
yes there is a lot to live for, but sometimes, its hard to see the wood through the trees...
yeah there can be too much sympathy sometimes, but it pays to be careful.
as someone who felt her consiousness slip away and fully expected to die, i can tell you that suicide is REAL. the depression is REAL. no amount of 'oh it will get better/pull yourself together, helps... but there is a way out, life is worth living, but for me, if it was as a guy... it wasnt...
i literally couldnt cope.... i STILL cry when i think about that thing between my thighs.... i cant shower with my eyes open.... messed up? yeah, probably. But my life is atleast LIVEABLE now. im heading somwhere where live IS worth living. Your 'oh buck up, it might never happen, just be a man and stop crying' attitude is SO bloody male i want to scream. I respect your gender identity Kalt, but ill be honest, you havent got a shred of female about you in your posting atttuide and demenour on the forums.
R >

[Steph]

THIS TOPIC HAS BEEN LOCKED AND WILL ONLY BE UNLOCKED BY ADMINS.

This site is about DIGNITY, RESPECT, COMPASSION and SUPPORT.  Members who are unable or unwilling to act accordingly will be banned.

We all need to be honest in our expression of our feelings or beliefs, however, this can still be done with DIGNITY, RESPECT, COMPASSION and SUPPORT, it just takes a little more skill.

Steph