Hmmmmmmmmm,
Every group has it's extreamist views, or fring ellements. Just look at the Catholic Church, they have lots issues between different factions within their religion. So yes the Catholic Church is against abortion, same sex marriage, etc... but there are lots of members who do not agree with that.
Some times it's easy to piant everyone with the same brush, but I prefere to do things one on one, pick those who I like and who like me, no matter which group they belong to. It's a question of creating allies, that way more people find out that on the whole we are really good people as well.
Having said that, I imagine that there are TS/TG's in our group who may be considered as extreamist as well.
Steph