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Started by becca.anne, June 24, 2024, 07:53:52 PM

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becca.anne

Hello again everyone. I fell off the planet for a bit but I am back at it. Actually, it never stopped but let's just say I have not been as visible as I contend with life in general. I have completely switch over my Dr's and meet with a new Physiologist tomorrow for the first time. I did not get as far with the letters that I had hoped for. That is the short version. More to follow.

becca

Sarah B

Hi Becca Anne

It's good to see you back again.  I have read the recent troubles you are having, in getting back on track with your goals.  However, I believe with the determination that you have you will achieve the goals you want for yourself.

I look forward to hearing from you about your journey as I like reading other members stories and learning from them.  However remember only to share what you are comfortable in sharing and when you post, the public can see what you write.

I assume when you wrote "Physiologist" you meant psychologist?  Please correct me if I'm wrong.

Anyway take care and I hope all your dreams come true.

Love and Hugs
Sarah B
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becca.anne

I had my session and so far so good. I am awaiting the referral to the surgeon.
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@becca.anne
Dear Becca Anne:
Thank you for sharing and posting your good report.
Once you obtain the referral to the surgeon be sure to keep me
and the rest of your avid followers updated with your progress.

All of us on the Forum are wishing you success and happiness.

HUGS, and more HUGS,
Danielle
[Northern Star Girl]



Quote from: becca.anne on July 10, 2024, 03:53:03 PMI had my session and so far so good. I am awaiting the referral to the surgeon.
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That's good news!

Thanks for sharing an update. We wish you the best of luck.
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Hi Becca Anne

It good to hear that you are going to get a referral to see the surgeon.

Keep working on your dreams and please let us know how it goes.

Take care and all the best

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becca.anne

Thank you for the kind words. I do however have an issue I am working through. I am with Mayo and I have having a bit of a challenge getting referred to the Surgeons for vaginalplasty the orchi is no sweat and can be done locally. I am still trying to figure out her inner workings of the "establishment". My contention is Mayo is Mayo. Each site has a speciality which its great so I should be able to go where the specialists are. Sure there will be some cost on my end which I am happy to pay. Arg... My preference is to have it done all at once but some surgeons say doing the orchid first is in some respects better because your body gets used to the new configuration.

Becca
(I need to do some tickers for a signature...)
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Sephirah

Quote from: becca.anne on July 10, 2024, 10:02:53 PMThank you for the kind words. I do however have an issue I am working through. I am with Mayo and I have having a bit of a challenge getting referred to the Surgeons for vaginalplasty the orchi is no sweat and can be done locally. I am still trying to figure out her inner workings of the "establishment". My contention is Mayo is Mayo. Each site has a speciality which its great so I should be able to go where the specialists are. Sure there will be some cost on my end which I am happy to pay. Arg... My preference is to have it done all at once but some surgeons say doing the orchid first is in some respects better because your body gets used to the new configuration.

Becca
(I need to do some tickers for a signature...)


Signatures  are overrated.
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Quote from: Sephirah on July 10, 2024, 10:27:11 PMSignatures  are overrated.

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Sephirah

Quote from: Northern Star Girl on July 10, 2024, 11:58:57 PM@Sephirah
Dear Sephirah:
I like signature lines on our members profiles .... 
      ....I find them to be very informative !!!!  :)
HUGS,
Danielle
[Northern Star Girl]

 :-*
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Hi Sephirah and Danielle

Becca Anne was referring to 'Tickers' not 'Signatures' :laugh:  ::)  :o  ;D  :D  ;)  :)

Take care and all the best

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Sephirah

Quote from: Sarah B on July 11, 2024, 01:35:21 AMHi Sephirah and Danielle

Becca Anne was referring to 'Tickers' not 'Signatures' :laugh:  ::)  :o  ;D  :D  ;)  :)

Take care and all the best

Love and Hugs
Sarah B
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@Sephirah

Lol I know, sweetie. Was just messing around. Back before the forum got wiped, I never bothered with signatures because it just isn't me. This is what I had back in 2019 and I quite like it. It's latin. It translates to: "Nature does nothing in vain." Something I firmly believe in.

I know people want timelines to mark their progress towards being themselves and, honestly, more power to them! And it's kinda cool to see how long people have been on their journey, honestly. Because most of 'em I've known before they even started. It makes me feel a li'l bit weird when you see tickers showing like 8 Years or whatever and I'm thinking "Girl I knew you when you came here asking if you should even bother!" ;D ;D

It's testament to the courage, and will, and self determination of people who walk their path without looking back. So... the more tickers the better! ;D
Natura nihil frustra facit.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." ~ Buddha.

If you're dealing with self esteem issues, maybe click here. There may be something you find useful. :)
Above all... remember: you are beautiful, you are valuable, and you have a shining spark of magnificence within you. Don't let anyone take that from you. Embrace who you are. <3

Sarah B

Hi Sephirah

I know, I was going to refer to your signature in Latin in a post and reply in Latin. So Apt, however I'm tied up in replying to Becca Anne's post at the moment

I remember you vaguely being around Susan's, when I was around 2010 to 2012.  I went back into the woodwork and have only resurfaced.  Members come and go and it would be nice to know how they have fared.

I was never interested in tickers.  However my signature has remained the same and this time around I have added a short bio.

"Things are afoot" and "I'll be back", come to mind.  Take care and all the best.

Love and Hugs
Sarah B
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PS I will reply to your message.
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Haha I've been "vaguely" around Susans ever since I joined back in 2008. Took a lot of breaks. It's always nice to see long term members here, as well as the newer members. You are all the lifeblood of this site.  :-*
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Sarah B

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Hi Becca Anne

You are welcome to the kind words, anytime, anywhere, by doing so we are showing you that we are very supportive of what you are doing.

You have mentioned that you have an issue or problem and you say:

Quote from: becca.anne on July 10, 2024, 10:02:53 PMThank you for the kind words. I do however have an issue I am working through. I am with Mayo and I have having a bit of a challenge getting referred to the Surgeons for vaginalplasty the orchi is no sweat and can be done locally. I am still trying to figure out her inner workings of the "establishment". My contention is Mayo is Mayo. Each site has a speciality which its great so I should be able to go where the specialists are. Sure there will be some cost on my end which I am happy to pay. Arg... My preference is to have it done all at once but some surgeons say doing the orchid first is in some respects better because your body gets used to the new configuration.

Becca
(I need to do some tickers for a signature...)

The following surgery letters, allowed me to get my surgery.  I mention them, so that you can understand where I'm coming from.  As far as I know I needed at least two letters, I had three, at the time for my surgery to go ahead.  This is Australia and nearly 34 years ago.  According to the SOC at the time.

This is the first letter.

The following letter is from my first psychiatrist virtually verbatim to my surgeon, I do not know when this letter was created, it was certainly after May 1990:

Dear Peter Haertsch (surgeon)

Re Sarah B

Sarah B was referred to me in March 89.  She has been seen by Alf and Orsmand, both of whom have written to you.  She is a male to female transsexual who is, I believe suitable for gender reassignment surgery.

Regards
Cornelius Greenway (first psychiatrist)

This is the second letter.

The following letter is from my second psychiatrist virtually verbatim to my first psychiatrist and surgeon, this letter is dated May 1990:

Dear Cornelius Greenway  (first psychiatrist)

Re Ms Sarah B

I have seen this transsexual several times now, and feel quite the appropriateness of recommending gender reassignment surgery.

She has proved herself as a capable and competent person with a realistic expectation from the operation, and I have little doubt that this will improve the quality of her life.

I would recommend that the operation be done later on this year, since that would closely approximate living permanently in the preferred sexual role.

I hope this will be of some interest and help to you.

Regards
Tony Orsmand  (second psychiatrist)
CC Dr Peter Haertsch (surgeon)


These two letters are not as in depth as some letters that I have seen.

Regardless of which surgeon you choose, the surgeon is going to request from you at least one or two letters from different 'therapist/s' doctor/s, psychologist/s, psychiatrist/s or other qualified practitioners. Depending upon which version of SOC they are going by.  Stating whatever the surgeon requires, that needs to be stated in those letter/s.

The Standards Of Care version 7 or version 8 are basically outlined in the following paper and I quote:

QuoteIn SOC7, the criteria to undergo breast or chest surgery was one referral letter by a qualified, licensed mental health provider. This referral needed to include well-documented, persistent gender dysphoria for an age-of-majority individual with capacity to make informed decisions and consent to treatment, with any medical comorbidities reasonably well-controlled. Genital surgery candidates required two referral letters. For those seeking hysterectomy, ovariectomy, or orchiectomy, they are required to have been on 12 continuous months of hormone therapy as appropriate to the patient's gender goals, unless a medical contraindication existed. For those seeking metoidioplasty, phalloplasty, or vaginoplasty, the guidelines stipulated that the individual must have been living 12 months in their gender role that is congruent with their gender identity. Such a requirement was recommended in order for patients to be able to experience and socially adjust to their desired gender role before undergoing an irreversible surgery.

SOC8 guidelines for GAS in the adult population (age of majority, 18+ in United States) recommends only one letter of readiness for medical or surgical treatment, provided it is written by a health care provider experienced in assessment of gender diverse individuals. While this reduces the number of documents, it stresses the knowledge of the assessor as pertains not only to mental health and medical preparedness for treatment, and encourages a unique evaluation of each patient, combining the expertize of the assessor and the "lived experience" of the individual patient. Furthermore, the recommended time frame in SOC8 for consistent hormone replacement therapy (HRT) before GAS contracts to 6 months, rather than the previously recommended 12 months, with a caveat that prolonged hormone therapy may be indicated to maximize surgical results, such as the case with breast budding before breast augmentation. SOC8 also recognizes that HRT may not be indicated for patients for whom HRT is medically contraindicated, or for gender diverse individuals for whom HRT does not support their gender identity goals.
[1]

Which brings me to your problem.  I had never heard of orchiectomy or genital hair removal during those two years while I pursued my surgery.  My surgeon did not require them.  Let me repeat that, my surgeon did not require those procedures.  However, here I am, walking around perfectly normal without any problems, with a healthy vagina.

So as you say, "My preference is to have it done all at once".  Then I'm going to say, "find the surgeon that is going to do all of it at once, according to your wishes.

Where surgeons are saying "doing the orchid first is in some respects better because your body gets used to the new configuration."  I'm saying, "absolute rubbish". (this is my opinion only).  There may be reasons for going down this path, stopping testosterone, a step to consider if you want to go down this step before the final irreversible operation, gate keeping or more expensive, meaning more money for them.  There maybe reasons for not going down this path, loss of tissue, two operations more risk and saving money.

What ever path you decide, it is your decision and no matter what you decide to do, we at Susan's will support you in your decision.

Please ask questions, whether here at Susan's or with your 'therapist'.  Your wishes are paramount and make them known.  So if you "want it all done at once", then seek that option.

Take care and all the best for the future.

Love and Hugs
Sarah B
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PS I changed the following from "I would like to tell you just a little about my surgery,"  to  "The following surgery letters, allowed me to get my surgery.  I mention them,"  To clarify what I wanted to say.
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[1] World professional association for transgender health guidelines: 2022 surgical treatment updates in the standards of care for transgender and gender diverse people
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Feb 1991 Surgery.

becca.anne

I need to officially state that the primary reason for the orchi is for me to get off the Spiro which is paramount to my needs.

Lori Dee

@becca.anne

Have you explored other options? Spiro is not the only way to make that happen. I was on Spiro for a while and it wasn't getting the job done, so got moved to Finasteride. That wasn't working so now I get leuprolide injections every three months. I was also taking Casodex (oral tabs) with that, but the leuprolide is working, and now have discontinued the Casodex. If you pay out-of-pocket for your meds, leuprolide may not be for you as it is quite expensive.

I understand your reasoning. I just want to be sure you have explored all the options before doing a permanent surgery. If you and your doctor have already discussed this, that is good and you know what is best for you. I hope it all goes well for you.
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