Booked an appointment with a doctor for phalloplasty

[darksou]

What are the questions that I should ask about the procedure before going for it? The most important questions I'd like to ask about it is if he does the procedure without the use of any internal devices nor implants. I don't want these as they are dealbreakers for me. I'd also like to ask if I will keep having erotic sensation on my natal genitals (on the phallo it is optional, but preferred). I also plan on asking for photos, how it was for other patients who had the surgery and how much it will cost (will attempt to get the money for it through insurance though).

Anything else that you'd suggest I ask?

[Lori Dee]

Some surgeons have websites with before and after photos. You might be able to see some examples of results that way. If not, perhaps the surgeon has a photo album in their office that you can look at. Some are too graphic for the internet and patient privacy issues, etc.

You will also want to know what to do, or not do, before and after the surgery. Is it one surgery or several over time? While recovering will you need help from someone to change bandages or whatever? How long is recovery expected to take? How long in the hospital? How long resting at home? How long before you can do household chores and regular activities?

I hope this helps. Good luck!

[SoupSarah]

When considering phalloplasty, it's essential to ask the right questions to be well-informed. Here are some I came up with:

Can you explain what phalloplasty involves and the different techniques available? Which technique would be best for me?

How experienced are you with this surgery? How many have you done, and can I see some before-and-after photos?

Am I a good candidate for this surgery? What criteria or evaluations do I need to meet before proceeding?

What's the cost of the procedure, and what does that include? Is it covered by insurance, or are there financing options?

How long will the surgery take, and what kind of anaesthesia will be used? Can you walk me through the steps of the procedure?

What are the potential risks and complications, and how often do they occur? How would any complications be managed?

What should I expect in terms of recovery time? Will there be pain or discomfort, and how will that be managed? Are there any activity restrictions during recovery?

How often will I need follow-up appointments, and what kind of post-op care will I need? Who should I contact if there are any problems?

What kind of aesthetic results can I expect? Will there be visible scars, and can they be minimized?

How functional will the neophallus be? What can I expect in terms of sensation and the ability to urinate standing up? Will additional surgeries be necessary for optimal functionality?

How long will the results last? Will I need any maintenance or additional procedures down the line?

How might this surgery impact my daily life in the long term? What should I expect regarding sexual function and satisfaction?

What kind of mental health support is available before and after surgery? Are there any support groups or resources you can recommend?

Are there any legal aspects I should be aware of? Will I need to update my identification documents after the surgery?

maybe ask about 'infection rates' good surgeons should always want to provide those.. and that's about it really. Also, not sure your reasoning for not wanting an erectile device, if they are dysphoric then sorry, but tech has come on amazingly in the last few years and (I have close personal experience here) they are very discrete and functional. Worth to ask about it if your the surgeon is there in front of you, even if later you decide its not for you.

[darksou]

Some surgeons have websites with before and after photos. You might be able to see some examples of results that way. If not, perhaps the surgeon has a photo album in their office that you can look at. Some are too graphic for the internet and patient privacy issues, etc.

You will also want to know what to do, or not do, before and after the surgery. Is it one surgery or several over time? While recovering will you need help from someone to change bandages or whatever? How long is recovery expected to take? How long in the hospital? How long resting at home? How long before you can do household chores and regular activities?

I hope this helps. Good luck!

Thanks a lot. That helps. I will keep in mind my recovery times and the help I will need for these tough times.

[darksou]

When considering phalloplasty, it's essential to ask the right questions to be well-informed. Here are some I came up with:

Can you explain what phalloplasty involves and the different techniques available? Which technique would be best for me?

How experienced are you with this surgery? How many have you done, and can I see some before-and-after photos?

Am I a good candidate for this surgery? What criteria or evaluations do I need to meet before proceeding?

What's the cost of the procedure, and what does that include? Is it covered by insurance, or are there financing options?

How long will the surgery take, and what kind of anaesthesia will be used? Can you walk me through the steps of the procedure?

What are the potential risks and complications, and how often do they occur? How would any complications be managed?

What should I expect in terms of recovery time? Will there be pain or discomfort, and how will that be managed? Are there any activity restrictions during recovery?

How often will I need follow-up appointments, and what kind of post-op care will I need? Who should I contact if there are any problems?

What kind of aesthetic results can I expect? Will there be visible scars, and can they be minimized?

How functional will the neophallus be? What can I expect in terms of sensation and the ability to urinate standing up? Will additional surgeries be necessary for optimal functionality?

How long will the results last? Will I need any maintenance or additional procedures down the line?

How might this surgery impact my daily life in the long term? What should I expect regarding sexual function and satisfaction?

What kind of mental health support is available before and after surgery? Are there any support groups or resources you can recommend?

Are there any legal aspects I should be aware of? Will I need to update my identification documents after the surgery?

maybe ask about 'infection rates' good surgeons should always want to provide those.. and that's about it really. Also, not sure your reasoning for not wanting an erectile device, if they are dysphoric then sorry, but tech has come on amazingly in the last few years and (I have close personal experience here) they are very discrete and functional. Worth to ask about it if your the surgeon is there in front of you, even if later you decide its not for you.

I already know some of these, but I will definitely ask about those you suggested aside of these. Thanks a lot.