I don't think anyone is going to blow smoke up anyone's... anything.. about how they look.
But OMG, look out a window on a city street. Have a drink at an outdoor cafe. Sit in a park. Wherever you can people watch — and just spend 30 minutes looking at the incredibly variety of women that pass. All shapes, sizes, weights, heights, hair lengths, colors, thickness, beautiful, plain, bony, thin, muscular, big boobs, no boobs, etc etc etc.
What they all share in common is that they aren't for a second doubting that they are women. Are they too looking at other women and thinking "wow, I wish I had her hair!"... "I could never pull off that dress!" Etc etc.. You bet. And so will you do. That's part of the package deal.
But there is literally no such thing as too "anything" to be a woman. If you own it.