I wore my first pair of hoops today; 10kt gold. They weren't huggers, but they also weren't large hoops, maybe an inch in diameter, and they were "G" type hoops (I'm not sure if "G" is the right name, but the style reminds me of the letter "G" because it's go the straight post, and curves into a 3/4 circle that looks like "G"). I'll be taking them off and putting studs in when I go to bed, since I don't want to run the risk of the hoops getting caught on my pillow and ripping out of my ears. They were the smallest out of the 3 I got last week, and I found that on me, that size of hoop looked rather androgynous/masculine. I think tomorrow I might try one of the larger hoops. I didn't find that I had much discomfort---a few times I found the one in my right ear gave me a little pain when I tilted my head and it swung. Of course my right ear is the one I had to get re-pierced back in January.
Otherwise, at work I had some of the women there (and I'm not out at work yet, although they know that I am intersex and my medical issues of the past few years seems to have reactivated my puberty---but this time it's my female puberty only, not my mixed puberty from decades ago), tell me that I put them to shame today with my hoops and I also had my hair done up with clips, as well as makeup and lipstick. I thought that was a pretty good compliment, especially since I had been having issues with my hair this morning!