Lori (spouse) is worried that they'll make same-sex illegal. I told her we're safe from that at least (although others aren't)
1) they say assigned sex at birth is set and stuck
2) we never updated my deadname on the marriage document
therefore, in the eyes of the GOP bigots, we are still husband and wife despite it being contrary to the truth.
I am thankful that she still wants to be married and, weird as it may sound, is fearful that the government may end it.