Quote from: Northern Star Girl on Yesterday at 03:42:05 PM@Lilis
Dear Lilis:
I enjoyed reading your treatise regarding what is going on in "Lilis World"
You have the right attitude regarding the death your ex's family/your son's grandfather.
Even though you did not get along well with him, I applaud you for not speaking ill of those
that have passed away.
Continue to support your son and your ex with compassion as they are grieving.
Regarding your "socially transitioning" endeavors.... and you are correct when describing that
subject that there are various things that involve that task.
I made an effort to get involved in female actives along with other females.
I started by being involved in activities such as Charity Runs, volunteering in a food kitchen,
and by socializing with accepting females that were aware of my trans status as I became more
accepted and then eventually came out as FULL TIME.
I started a Gym Gals group that meets at the local gym once a week or so, also I ended up
getting involved in a Book Club with 6 other females. Eventually I made a point to host
my accepting new female friends at my home for ladies small group dinners and game nights.
As a result of my frequent participation I eventually I started getting invitations to female events,
dinners, sewing clubs, etc ... and even
wedding showers and baby showers and other group events that included men and women, birthdays,
volunteering events, family picnics and potlucks.
It is very IMPORTANT to not refuse invitations if possible...
...if one refuses invitations frequently then you may stop getting other invites.
When you get comfortable with some of the women, if possible at a later time, return the invites for
one on one or small group lunches, dinners, walking around the neighborhood, etc.
You can see and read some details regarding my coming out to my small town and some of my relationships
and activities in ALL of my Blog Threads listed in chronological order at the bottom of this posting and
any posting that I have submitted over the years.
My 2nd Blog thread is a good place to start:
I am the Hunted Prey : Danielle's Chronicles
https://www.susans.org/index.php/topic,236395.msg2123029.html#msg2123029
Again Lilis, I always look forward and enjoy reading what you post on your Blog thread and on other threads
an topic on the Forum.
HUGS, Danielle [Northern Star Girl]
Hii Danielle,
About my ex father in-law, he was a hurtful man.
Even going the distance of calling me degrading names such the F-word many times over the years, and others that I rather not get into here.
But you're right there's no need to speak I'll of him now.
Even though he was a horrible person to me he made up his shortcomings by being a excellent father to his daughter and grandfather to my son.
And because of this, yes I am to forgive him for the horrible things that happened between us.
Oh my Goodness, your social transitioning is an excellent experience and story, and I want to thank you so much for sharing it here on my blog.
And thank you for pointing it out how to easily find them in your blog.
I love reading your story and many of the things that resonates I take them with me.
Omgash... "Lilis World" is so fitting...
It's so fitting that I am thinking to renaming my blog to "Lilis World" if there's a way to do it.
I think I am past the "Unveiling" phases, so I think I will go ahead once I figure it out.
Thank you so much, our lovely administrator, and sister, Danielle, for stopping and adding to my blog.
XOXOXO ❣️
~ Lilis 🌷
