Selene, We are our worst critic. For what its worth, I think you have a cute female nose. Beautiful rounded chin, high cheek bones and a pretty smile. Your adam's apple doesn't show much in the pictures but if it bothers you.... As far as the shoulders and muscles, Estrogen will work it magic and diminish them. It takes years and avoid heavy lifting in the gym. Many women have wide shoulders so don't worry to much about it. I worked out a great deal when I was younger and am surprised how quickly my 18" arms disappeared. I seldom wear sleeveless tops as they accent my shoulders but that is a part of being a woman. We wear makeup, tops, jewelry, shoes all to accent or diminish whatever attributes we have. I would do very little FFS, but that's me. Hang in there. The journey is a long trek.