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After you came out, how many jobs did you work before being in an accepting one?

Started by ChrissyRyan, February 17, 2025, 04:00:45 PM

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ChrissyRyan

After you came out, how many jobs did you have to work before being in an accepting one as a transgender person?

Were any of these jobs after you came out AND before you went full time?

If you are/were self employed before and after moving to another city, that would count as two jobs.

If you moved to another city and then became self employed, that would count as one job.

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Karen_A

I went full-time on a job I had been in for about 2 years... Was there for 12years after that. In fact I got promoted to management not long after going full-time.

- Karen

Jessica_Rose

I transitioned in the job I still have. Most of my co-workers know me from pre-transition, and they have all been awesome! I have received yearly raises, and have never felt discriminated against or shunned by anyone at the company. About 95% of their employees work from home now, but I transitioned while going to the office daily. I've been working for Progressive nearly 20 years, and only have good things to say about them.

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Northern Star Girl

I started HRT in March of 2015, went Full-Time in December of 2016, then I just about immediately
after going full-time quit my executive accounting job as a Department Head in a mid-size company.

I then relocated to small town Alaska life from Eastern Montana where I was born and raised on
my parents cattle ranch.  I loved the rural life, land, horses, life values, etc.

In early January 2017 I then started my own "woman owned" CPA and Financial Planning business that
serves private and business clients.

Plan to go to one of my first Blog Threads for more details    I am the Hunted Prey : Danielle's Chronicles   

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EllenW

I transitioned at company I eventually retired from. My VP and Director were very supportive as were all my co-workers. My biggest concern was what the clients' reaction was going to be, as I would be going to their office as Ellen instead of <deadname>. However, both the VP and Director discussed it with their leadership, and they had no issues.

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Faith

9 years at the job, transitioned, coming up on 7 more. While there are issues here, none of them are due to transitioning or gender. I went from an almost complete unknown to everyone knowing who I am, gossip and rumor mill very much alive .. it was quite the awakening  :o
I left the door open, only a few came through. such is my life.
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Sephirah

Quote from: Northern Star Girl on February 17, 2025, 04:50:40 PMI started HRT in March of 2015, went Full-Time in December of 2016, then I just about immediately
after going full-time quit my executive accounting job as a Department Head in a mid-size company.

I then relocated to small town Alaska life from Eastern Montana where I was born and raised on
my parents cattle ranch.  I loved the rural life, land, horses, life values, etc.

In early January 2017 I then started my own "woman owned" CPA and Financial Planning business that
serves private and business clients.

Plan to go to one of my first Blog Threads for more details    I am the Hunted Prey : Danielle's Chronicles   

Danielle
[Northern Star Girl]


@Danielle For some reason I kind of figured you were born on the ice, lol. Colour me shocked.

(also, you should make it easier for non-staff members to @ people. Give everyone the same deal. There's no reason not to, not these days. People shouldn't have to look up the member number in the age of social media. That's deliberately obtuse.)
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Lori Dee

Quote from: Sephirah on February 20, 2025, 03:53:56 PM@Danielle For some reason I kind of figured you were born on the ice, lol. Colour me shocked.

(also, you should make it easier for non-staff members to @ people. Give everyone the same deal. There's no reason not to, not these days. People shouldn't have to look up the member number in the age of social media. That's deliberately obtuse.)

I didn't think it was a staff-only function. Anyone can type @ followed by a user name. But you have to use the correct username. @Sephirah allows me to choose your user name, but @Lauren gives me a list of people who are not you.  ;D
@Danielle should be @Northern Star Girl, her username.
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Sephirah

Quote from: Lori Dee on February 20, 2025, 05:14:36 PMI didn't think it was a staff-only function. Anyone can type @ followed by a user name. But you have to use the correct username. @Sephirah allows me to choose your user name, but @Lauren gives me a list of people who are not you.  ;D
@Danielle should be @Northern Star Girl, her username.


It is a staff only function, Lori.

You are staff. :)

If I type @Lori Dee then it doesn't give a link. It is a staff privilege. Everyone else has to use the [member=the number of whoever you want to talk to]member name (the @ is added automatically)[/member] because... reasons. This is the social media age, where that is basically standard. It should not be a privilege. Not if you want to attract members. Just saying. And I probably shouldn't have said anything but... this is why forums are dying out. Why membership is dying. Because you put really basic stuff behind walls.

Okay... I stand corrected. It used to be a staff only function. Seems it has been changed. Kudos. <3 Ignore everything I just said. :P
Natura nihil frustra facit.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." ~ Buddha.

If you're dealing with self esteem issues, maybe click here. There may be something you find useful. :)
Above all... remember: you are beautiful, you are valuable, and you have a shining spark of magnificence within you. Don't let anyone take that from you. Embrace who you are. <3

Lori Dee

Quote from: Sephirah on February 20, 2025, 05:28:41 PMIt is a staff only function, Lori.

You are staff. :)

If I type @Lori Dee then it doesn't give a link. It is a staff privilege. Everyone else has to use the [member=the number of whoever you want to talk to]member name (the @ is added automatically)[/member] because... reasons. This is the social media age, where that is basically standard. It should not be a privilege. Not if you want to attract members. Just saying. And I probably shouldn't have said anything but... this is why forums are dying out. Why membership is dying. Because you put really basic stuff behind walls.

Okay... I stand corrected. It used to be a staff only function. Seems it has been changed. Kudos. <3 Ignore everything I just said. :P

Maybe if you updated your browser more than once every five years...  ;D  HUGS!
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ChrissyRyan

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

ChrissyRyan

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

ChrissyRyan

So if someone uses @ with the correct username, what does this trigger to the receiver (the person you used @ for, such as @Sephirah?

That is, does the receiver, in the case, @Sephirah get a notification or an alert?

Chrissy




Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

Lori Dee

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on February 20, 2025, 07:20:10 PMSo if someone uses @ with the correct username, what does this trigger to the receiver (the person you used @ for, such as @Sephirah?

That is, does the receiver, in the case, @Sephirah get a notification or an alert?

Chrissy






Much like the notifications you get when someone likes or thank your post. Or that I quoted you in a post, it says that you were mentioned in a post. @ChrissyRyan
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ChrissyRyan

Quote from: Lori Dee on February 20, 2025, 09:37:24 PMMuch like the notifications you get when someone likes or thank your post. Or that I quoted you in a post, it says that you were mentioned in a post. @ChrissyRyan


Okay.  Thank you.
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

Northern Star Girl

@Sephirah  @Lori Dee  @ChrissyRyan

I was gone all day while you 3 ladies were discussing and finally
correctly figuring out our Forum "@ mentions" function.

        Just to set the record straight,
        it was indeed a "staff only" function
        until early 2020 and then after that
        it became available to all members...
        ... and that was a good thing and an
        improvement in how the Forum works
        for all of our members. 


HUGS, Danielle
****Help support this website by:
Subscribing !     and/or by    Donating !

❤️❤️❤️  Check out my Personal Blog Threads below
to read more details about me and my life.
  ❤️❤️❤️
             (Click Links below):  [Oldest first]
  Aspiringperson is now Alaskan Danielle    
           I am the Hunted Prey : Danielle's Chronicles    
                  A New Chapter: Alaskan Danielle's Chronicles    
                             Danielle's Continuing Life Adventures
I started HRT March 2015 and
I've been Full-Time since December 2016.
I love living in a small town in Alaska
I am 45 years old and Single

        Email:  --->  alaskandanielle@
                             yahoo.com

Lilis

Quote from: Northern Star Girl on February 20, 2025, 10:13:56 PMJust to set the record straight,
        it was indeed a "staff only" function
        until early 2020 and then after that
        it became available to all members...
        ... and that was a good thing and an
        improvement in how the Forum works
        for all of our members.

Quote from: Lori Dee on February 20, 2025, 06:51:28 PMMaybe if you updated your browser more than once every five years...  ;D  HUGS!
Lol, it seems Lori is correct that @Sephirah haven't updated the SMF software since 2020.

Sus...... 😂

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