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Started by Cayla, May 27, 2019, 03:51:08 PM

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Cayla

May 27, 2019, 03:51:08 PM
Sitting at the back of a bus I was sat opposite a young girl and her mum, the girl  kept looking over to me and then suddenly said to her mum "I like that bag (which was my rucksack) I've got that one" and her mum replied to her "yes thats the ladies bag" it made me instantly smile and as the journey ended I let the girl and her mum off before me and the mum said "thanks luv"  in a polite way, in my eyes referring to me as a lady, it made my day.

Cayla x

Lexxi

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May 27, 2019, 05:27:47 PM
That's wonderful Cayla! Congratulations  :) :) :)
Lexxi (the Hamster Queen)
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Cayla

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May 27, 2019, 06:25:41 PM
Thank you Lexxi it did sure feel good being called a lady for the first time purposely, its certainly intensified my desire to become the woman I want to be. Hope all is well for you hun hope you've had a good positive day

Cayla
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ChrissyRyan

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May 27, 2019, 06:28:18 PM
Quote from: Cayla on May 27, 2019, 03:51:08 PM
Sitting at the back of a bus I was sat opposite a young girl and her mum, the girl  kept looking over to me and then suddenly said to her mum "I like that bag (which was my rucksack) I've got that one" and her mum replied to her "yes thats the ladies bag" it made me instantly smile and as the journey ended I let the girl and her mum off before me and the mum said "thanks luv"  in a polite way, in my eyes referring to me as a lady, it made my day.

Cayla x


Yay!    :)


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Jessica

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May 27, 2019, 07:08:29 PM
Isn't this something we all pray for.  So happy for you!

"If you go out looking for friends, you are going to find they are very scarce.  If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere."

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Cayla

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May 28, 2019, 12:28:40 AM
Yes I hope it happens more often to me and to all other transexual women, thanks ladies.

Cayla
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KathyLauren

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May 28, 2019, 07:46:42 AM
I've been full-time for more than two years, and I still get a thrill when I am referred to as a lady or ma'am.  The most common case is going into a restaurant with my wife.  "Good evening, ladies", or "Are you ladies ready to order?"  It never gets old.

Enjoy it, Cayla!
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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ChrissyRyan

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October 13, 2024, 04:03:55 PM
Oh yes.  I really like being treated and greeted as a woman. 
I do not like it the other way around when someone snickers and such, but, that is the way it goes.

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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NancyDrew1930

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December 20, 2024, 12:28:42 PM
I just had some one refer to me today as a lady. 

ChrissyRyan

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December 20, 2024, 01:13:41 PM
Quote from: NancyDrew1930 on December 20, 2024, 12:28:42 PMI just had some one refer to me today as a lady. 

That is great!

It is always nice to be acknowledged like that.

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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NancyDrew1930

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December 22, 2024, 05:04:22 AM
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on December 20, 2024, 01:13:41 PMThat is great!

It is always nice to be acknowledged like that.

Chrissy
It was from the back, and when i turned around they were a little confused but still it was nice.
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ChrissyRyan

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December 22, 2024, 07:06:59 AM
Quote from: NancyDrew1930 on December 22, 2024, 05:04:22 AMIt was from the back, and when i turned around they were a little confused but still it was nice.

Yes, it is nice to receive any affirmation.

Things get confusing when I speak sometimes, just as it may when you hear Olympian Ms. Jenner or Admiral Levine of HHS.  They too do not have the melodious female voice.  But we are all women.

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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