You can see the glass half empty if you choose. It is just as difficult to see it half full. We have had members come here and cry on our shoulders before. We offer support and guidance and some choose to ignore the help that is offered and move on to cry somewhere else. The difference is that it is a choice.
I have serious doubts that you made even one phone call to any of the many resources listed on our Supprt Groups board. Your reply indicates to me that you looked over the list and dismissed them outright. As Miharu Barbie pointed out, help can come in many forms. But no one is going to knock on your door to offer assistance. YOU must take action. YOU must contact someone and ask them if they can help.
You might get some who will say that they cannot for some reason. But it only takes one to make the connection to the resources you need. YOU have to get up off the couch and find a job. YOU have to pick up the phone and make a call. I would start with the Transgender Hotline and explain your situation. If they cannot help you directly, I bet they know someone who can. YOU need to accept the referrals, follow the leads, and help them help you.
All of the resources that Susan's Place has to offer you are at your disposal. If that is not enough, then we have nothing more to offer. If you are not looking for help, but just want a place to cry, we sympathasize, but that will not change anything.
There is an old saying, "If you keep doing what you are doing, you will keep getting what you are getting." Make a change, or several if you need to. But it is ultimately up to you to DO something.
