I am sorry but this really, really annoys me. And I do not get easily annoyed. I am proud of my service, and I am equally proud of the people I served with. Several of whom were gay, and a couple were trans... even before I knew I was trans. They confided in me because I guess I am someone easy to talk to. It has always been a bit of a thorny subject in the military. And I never really understood why. I guess in the UK, we were still living in world war 2 times.
What I will say is that everyone, EVERYONE I considered as family while serving... their background, gender or sexual identity wasn't an issue. All I cared about was that if a code 12 broke out, would these people have my back. And do everything they could to make our boat the best it could be.
The answer to that was always yes. Unequivocally. People who serve, they serve their military family and their country first. Themselves second.
This is a really crappy move. Let these people be themselves. To those closest to them, they likely already are.