Quote from: Sosophia on February 15, 2025, 10:20:06 AMHello
So i started my transition in 2011 , had my hormones back then but strugled getting to surgery , i have a date for it 16 may of this year (2025).can transition and getting to surgery be seen as a sort of
attachment ? Should i detach from surgery ? And i want a sexuality but is the vow of celibacy not for me then ?i want to finaly get to surgery but isnt that an attachment ?
In many Buddhist traditions, the "watcher" or "noticer" is considered to have no inherent substance of its own. It is pure awareness, simply the act of noticing without attachment, preference, or identification.
Because it is nothing in itself, it cannot suffer.
Suffering arises when awareness becomes entangled with thoughts, emotions, and identities.
Now this is extremely powerful if you are able to achieve it.
But, I can not help you or guide you, because I am not qualify, I would suggest to try again in the Buddhism sub and hopefully someone else more qualified can help guide you there.
I wish you the best in your journey.
~ Lilis