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Started by Jessica_Rose, January 17, 2018, 08:38:29 PM

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Pema

Happy birthday, Jessica Rose! Congratulations on another successful orbit!

I wish you a wonderful day filled with whatever you choose.
"Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
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Lori Dee

Happy Birthday, Jessica!

I hope you have something special planned for your special day. Do something that you haven't done for a while, like NOT driving.  ;D
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Hi Jessica

Just another day, I hope all your wishes came true for this special day.

I hope you get a lot of presents for your birthday.

What type of cake are you eating and are you going to blow out all those candles?

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Jessica_Rose

Thanks for all of the birthday wishes!

We drove to my dad's house Thursday evening and began searching for personal items, documents, and photos which we should retrieve. There were also a few small corner tables Susan wanted. After loading everything Friday morning we went home, ate lunch, issued a rather large wire transfer, then took our other car back to my dad's house.

The wire transfer was to cover the 'cash to close' for our new home. The title company said it usually takes 2 - 3 hours to get confirmation. I waited, and waited, and waited. At 5:00pm I called the title company, they didn't have confirmation of the transfer. I called at 5:30pm, still no confirmation. I called at 6:00pm, the person at the title company asked for the tracking number of the transfer. After about thirty minutes, she called back. There had been some recent updates to the process used for wire transfers, and the two banks involved in the transfer were the two banks having the most trouble with the change! However, she was finally able to verify that the transfer was successful.

We had several visitors at my dad's old house on Saturday and Sunday. The last of the old cars was hauled away. Someone else filled a small trailer with assorted car parts, and another frequent visitor bought a few more pieces of pottery. We didn't collect much money over the weekend, which confirmed my decision to make it the last weekend of never-ending garage sale.

Sunday afternoon, the new owner and his wife visited. We talked for a few hours, and I showed them around. I tried to give them as much history as I could. I gave them my set of keys to the house. After they left, Susan and I made another pass for photos and documents, then loaded our luggage and said 'goodbye'. As we pulled out of the driveway, I locked the gate for the last time. I've been able to call that place 'home' for forty seven years, but now it's home to someone else. Time to move on.

I didn't get a chance to celebrate my birthday yesterday, but I was able to close down my dad's old house. I still won't have much 'free' time though. About an hour ago, Susan and I signed the documents to purchase our new home. I expect we'll be moving in late September. It will be great to live near our friends in Colorado once more.

Love always -- Jessica Rose
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Lori Dee

You are definitely busy! Once you get settled in here, things will calm down a bit.

You'll need to adapt to our afternoon siesta tradition.  ;D
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Susan made a birthday cake for me on Monday, and it was delicious! We've been busy all week, taking items to a storage facility and setting aside items to donate. I didn't realize how much 'stuff' we have accumulated, and adding 'stuff' from my dad's house made it worse. We definitely need to start clearing out some of it.

We invited some friends to have supper at our house last Thursday. Susan made chicken and egg noodles, along with crescent rolls and green beans. We also enjoyed a bottle of wine that we brought from Colorado. For dessert, everyone opted for cheesecake. After the meal and lots of small talk, I told them that Susan and I were moving back to Colorado, and that we had already bought a house there. I explained that we loved our house, and our neighbors, but we were worried about the direction politics had taken and how it was affecting us. Even though they don't know the whole story, they understood our decision.

While I do have concerns about moving, I know it's the right decision for us. While I don't look forward to all of the work involved in moving, I do look forward to living in a state where the laws are not stacked against us. We're debating as to when we should put our house on the market. Before, or after we move? We may be able to move in as early as the first week of September, but the timing and logistics are difficult to pin down right now. There are too many questions without answers. Hopefully, I'll start getting some of those answers this week.

Love always -- Jessica Rose
Journal thread - Jessica's Rose Garden
National Coming Out Day video - Coming Out
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Lori Dee

Quote from: Jessica_Rose on August 03, 2025, 01:44:34 PMWe may be able to move in as early as the first week of September, but the timing and logistics are difficult to pin down right now. There are too many questions without answers. Hopefully, I'll start getting some of those answers this week.

I know the anxiety of moving too well. I hate moving. The hardest part is saying goodbye to the old place (plus family and friends), and the uncertainty of the new location. I have been surprised by the acceptance I have felt here. I have learned that one of my next-door neighbors is LGBTQ, and I saw a woman in our community wearing a rainbow hat.

In the local news, a city councilman was up for censure because he repeatedly misgendered an employee at the public library. The vote was tied, so the measure did not pass. However, the mayor of Pueblo issued a strongly worded statement condemning this kind of conduct.

https://www.chieftain.com/story/news/2025/07/18/pueblo-mayor-2-city-councilors-want-roger-gomez-censured-heres-why/85262485007/

It is truly a breath of fresh air here, and once you get settled in, you will be able to relax. If you need help unloading, I am just a phone call away.  :)

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ChrissyRyan

When you move, you do have an excellent opportunity to purge and donate unneeded items.

Chrissy


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