I started down this amazing path of discovery a bit over two years ago. I'd been married for over 48 years when I came out to my wife in a gushing of revelations, guilt and fear. My key goal was to keep my marriage together. I couldn't, and still can't, imagine a life without her. So, I made a conscious decision to pace my transition slowly making sure my wife was comfortable with the steps I was taking. I also closely worked with my therapist as I planned my way ahead, learning more and more about this amazing woman I'd been holding inside for so many years and figuring out what transition was going to look like considering that I'm now 70 years old.
I am blessed that my wife supported and encouraged me; we celebrated our 50th wedding anniversary last fall.
Over the past few months I've had the desire to take a big step in my transition. With the input and advice of some truly inspirational friends and in coordination with my therapist and my wife, I've decided to start the process of seeking HRT. I'm waiting for my intake appointment to be scheduled, hopeful that I'm found medically eligible to begin.
I am so excited that I barely slept last night thinking about the possibilities.
Wish me luck!!
