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My dad passed away this morning

Started by NikkiM, Yesterday at 03:36:33 PM

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NikkiM

My dad passed away this morning, it was from his heart issues including Alzheimer's. One of the worker's from Hospice notice he was not doing well having issues and did have a do not resuscitate. A few minutes later, he passed. Mom was called first and came down and then called my brothers and I that dad was dead. My husband and I were supposed to do something in the morning and then this came up. My husband hugged me and has been there for me. I know dad is not suffering no longer in pain. Already have his funeral plans set, he had this done 4 years ago already paid for to make it easier on us. All we have to do is set the date. Mom, she is adjusting to the changes slowly that he is gone and knows we will be there to help her. Will be at the funeral home tomorrow setting the date for the funeral
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tgirlamg

Nikki,

I am so sorry for your loss... Sending good and healing thoughts to you and your family!

Hugs!

Ashley 💕
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

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Pema

I'm so sorry, Nikki. It's painful even when it's expected. I'm glad you and your mom have good support. I wish peace for all of you.
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NikkiM

Quote from: Pema on Yesterday at 03:58:02 PMI'm so sorry, Nikki. It's painful even when it's expected. I'm glad you and your mom have good support. I wish peace for all of you.

Mom knows she has help from us and has kept his favorite flannel shirt for memory reasons.

Athena

Formally known as White Rabbit
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Lilis

Quote from: NikkiM on Yesterday at 03:36:33 PMMy dad passed away this morning, it was from his heart issues including Alzheimer's.
Hi Nikki,

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you gentle hugs and love.


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Paulie

Sorry for your loss Nikki.
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big kim

Please accept  my condolences 
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Maid Marion

Sorry to hear that Nikki.

My wife wrote her obituary and put it on a flash drive.

Marion
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ChrissyRyan

Sorry Nikki.  I know you will have many memories of your father.


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NikkiM

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on Today at 07:47:54 AMSorry Nikki.  I know you will have many memories of your father.


Chrissy

One is when he met his new daughter for the first time. Called me Nikki and we hugged
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NikkiM

My friend Lisa from Ireland is coming, emailed her and flying out tonight. Knew my dad as well and being there for me at this time,said he was a nice man
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