Quote from: Jen T. on Yesterday at 10:44:36 PMHow did she conquer the fear and uncertainty? How did she face all the challenges that come with transitioning? How did she celebrate all the milestones? Did any of her loved ones stick by her through it all?
When I began my journey, I had the same fears. Hiding my soul for decades had driven me to a dark place. My only options were to fall deeper into darkness, or to release my soul into the light. Only one of those options had the potential of continued existence. I took a leap of faith, faith in myself to overcome any obstacles. I also believed in my strength, the strength of the woman who had been trapped in darkness her entire life. It was she who cracked the shell of darkness.
I was certain many of those who loved the person I was would forsake the person I would become. I told them my truth, then gave them time. No lectures, no deadlines, just time for them to become familiar with who I was becoming. I did lose a sister-in-law, and a few cousins, but everyone else eventually accepted and supported me. My wife and I recently celebrated our 41st Anniversary.
Before I transitioned, I rarely smiled, and I never showed my teeth. Now I smile every day, and occasionally experience a few moments of euphoria when I think about what I have accomplished. Allowing myself to become the person I should have been, instead of the person everyone else expected me to be, is the best celebration of all.
Love always -- Jessica Rose
