Well hon, if it is any consolation, (which I know it isn't, but anyway...) EVERYBODY looks horrible on ID and Passport photos.
By turns I've looked like a mugger, a serial arsonist, and that one time, an alien invader from the planet Mzxcvliudf (Don't know how, but the photo was slightly green-shifted)
But don't worry too much about it - your looks will keep softening, and one day you'll see who you're supposed to see! Even if she does look like a serial arsonist!