I got it, found the problem right here - my self i just go buy the cd,s from walmarts or music world or a few of the other music shops that i go to.
That, as they say, is so last century. That is not how new music is being herd, nor how its getting out. Ell's suggestions are good, there are podcasts you can download, stuff like Pandora, wiki, music sites like MOG that embed songs - and where you can find other with similar tastes and write back and fourth, there is LimeWire, the ALT-Rags, like SF Weekley and SF Bay Guardian, Village Voice and others that review stuff not getting radio play (or onto WallMart shelves), and U-Tube which has lots of great stuff, and is far more a place where new music gets discovered than WallMart.
The mechanics have changed 100%. Back when a lot of the stuff you liked came out the rule was > You made a record, then toured to support it. The money was in record sales, and everything was about the record. Now you put out a record/CD to support the tour, and touring is where the money is. Anyone with a computer, ProTools and some other stuff can make a pretty good recording now, and get it out without having to press 10,000 copies, which is a lot of money up front. The cost of making CDs the old way has got beyond what most new bands can do. So they DIY, or put out shows or cuts on their web sites. Some bands like STS9 and Mule have complete shows up, and for $20 you can download 2-3 CDs worth of stuff, with art work and burn the discs at home, or do whatever you do with them.
I've seen several bands I work with toss live cuts up on their web site, among other reasons, that to do a Live CD from that hall costs $17,000 (you're reading that right) JUST TO USE THE NAME. But, if you are only putting out a few songs, no money is changing hands, then....
Other bands are experimenting with selling CDs burned as the show is happening, you buy it there, and get it before you leave. I have a killer set of Peter Murphy of Bauhaus doing the Fillmore on Halloween a few years ago that opens with a couple of string players doing the opening to Bella Lagosi's Dead. And there is a lot of stuff out there like that. Tons of the Black Crows shows.
You just need to get out of the WallMart CD isle, off the commercial radio, what you want is out there.