Self-Identification Comes First
http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/02/11/self-identification-comes-first02/11/2008
The binder had a quote -- "If you ask 100 different trans people for any given definition, you will get 100 different answers." It was good starting point for a valuable discussion on how self-identification is the bottom line. The best way to understand someone's identity and preference is to ask them directly!
