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valentine's day: what are you doing? what are you giving your darling?

Started by Natasha, February 07, 2008, 06:50:15 PM

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Natasha

Quote from: ell on February 09, 2008, 09:34:44 AM
Quote from: Natasha on February 08, 2008, 01:34:29 PM
a candle light dinner with good conversation and lots of flirting (like it used to be before we met) on top of a hill with a scenic view.  then after the dinner and dessert he might still be craving something else. i'll give him a sexy dance with some sexy undies >:D and then we'll...ahem.. cough...ahem... cough...watch tv ;)

but, i thought you said you were lesbian and had a long-time girlfriend, who had SRS the same time as you?

if this is too personal, forget i asked, and i will crawl back to my little corner.

-ellie


ahem.. you're right.  i HAD a long-time girlfriend, also a mtf.. (we were together for almost six years) but after grs we went our separate ways.  she has a boyfriend now too & i've been seeing this guy since a few months ago.

i thought you knew since you answered this thread:

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,20220.0.html


there's another one in the "just for us"  "strange desires, the just for us part" where i give more details about this new relationship.  ok now you can crawl back to your little corner. ;)


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Ell

Quote from: Natasha on February 09, 2008, 11:16:35 AM
ahem.. you're right.  i HAD a long-time girlfriend, also a mtf.. (we were together for almost six years) but after grs we went our separate ways.  she has a boyfriend now too & i've been seeing this guy since a few months ago.

i thought you knew since you answered this thread:

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,20220.0.html

there's another one in the "just for us"  "strange desires, the just for us part" where i give more details about this new relationship.  ok now you can crawl back to your little corner. ;)

yes, i posted in that thread, but i didn't mention anything about her then, because, it seemed to me, you had only recently mentioned how great she was, and so after i read the above thread, i thought you were cheating on her!

oh gosh, is it still gossip if someone speaks of such things right in front of your face? i hope i haven't hurt your feelings, and sorry for doubting you.

-ellie
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Natasha

ha ha ha ha.  i've never "cheated" on anybody.  i don't believe in cheating at all.  she knew what i was up to.  we had long conversations about it, and she was fine with it.  she was also seeing someone at that time (the same guy she's with now).  i guess we both knew we had to move on & we did.
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Ell

Quote from: Natasha on February 09, 2008, 11:48:24 AM
she was also seeing someone at that time (the same guy she's with now).  i guess we both knew we had to move on & we did.

ok, so you both had GRS and then you both switched.
That is so interesting that i'd like to talk to my therapist about it (but i won't!)

to stay on topic, how do you like this new fellow, i mean, emotionally. do you have an urge to cook for him?

-ellie
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Natasha

Quote from: ell on February 09, 2008, 02:38:10 PM

ok, so you both had GRS and then you both switched.
That is so interesting that i'd like to talk to my therapist about it (but i won't!)

i don't think we "switched".  i'm guessing i was always bi to begin with but since i had the wrong plumbing, i didn't want to be with men.  now that i am post-op, i'm more comfortable with myself & i can finally say i also like men sexually.  what is interesting is that before grs, some lesbian friends didn't think we were "real" lesbians but embraced us as their "sisters" so to speak.  selegne (my ex) and i have never been with other women besides ourselves, and we were both pre-op when we met, so there was always a doubt on some people's minds

Quote from: ell on February 09, 2008, 02:38:10 PM
to stay on topic, how do you like this new fellow, i mean, emotionally. do you have an urge to cook for him?
-ellie

he's an amazing person, romantic, very polite, tall, dark ;).  an urge to cook for him? no...  ha ha i don't cook but he's ok with it.
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Ms Bev

I'll give her a bouquet of flowers, with a poem composed that day. Then, dinner out, and whatever else crosses our minds.  Maybe at home we'll dance before going upstairs.....embarrass our kids, and get the grand kids all wound up.


Bev
1.) If you're skating on thin ice, you might as well dance. 
Bev
2.) The more I talk to my married friends, the more I
     appreciate  having a wife.
Marcy
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tekla

Actually, its a fire opal with rubies around it for VD day (felt it had VD colors), I just use 'diamonds' as a generic term for any bling-bling.  And of course it comes with flowers, some candy and the card - which is the hardest part.  I can decide how much I want to spend on the bling, walk the mall and make a choice pretty fast, but the card, yeesh, she is a manager of a card/gift shop, so I have to really try to find a unique card.  And since that's a busy day at the old gift shop - and a big night for shows (Robin Trower), so I'm aways working, we celebrate the holiday on a different night.

And I already know what I'm getting, the lot of us really.  Our GF/wifes/whatever have all conspired together and about 15 of us who are always working together are getting these Motorola phones.  Not sleek, or colorful, no camera, they look like little tanks, built for the military they are almost unbreakable (we'll put that to the test) and waterproof, they have walkie-talkie functions so we can use them to run the show - (it can be used one-one one, or we can all be on it at the same time - off network, so no billing), they have sim cards and Java so we can store our calcs and use the calculator, keep track of our hours with a good datebook, and they get email, so we don't need to lug our laptops around with us anymore either.  It will be like losing five pounds in my travels.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Ell

Quote from: tekla on February 10, 2008, 12:30:02 PM
a big night for shows (Robin Trower), so I'm aways working

i had no idea robin trower was still around. "Why so unforgiving?"

-ell
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tekla

People in the music biz don't die, they just play smaller clubs.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Christo

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Lisbeth

Since my valentines are so far away, I am going to the "Singles' Day" party my landlady is throwing.
"Anyone who attempts to play the 'real transsexual' card should be summarily dismissed, as they are merely engaging in name calling rather than serious debate."
--Julia Serano

http://juliaserano.blogspot.com/2011/09/transsexual-versus-transgender.html
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