urge in exams

[Anisha]

Hey whenever i fill  the urge to crossdress i usually control it but for the last 2 year whenever my exams are at the door i cannot study and only imagine myself as a girl.....i have to crossdress at night but i cant concentrate .....the real problem is after the exam i almost never think of doing crossdressing.....i dont even think of using make up even if i am alone in home........i start to think that my crossdressing urge is finally ended and i donot want to be a female anymore but i again become  a female from inside when it comes the time to study in exams...what shall i do??

[tekla]

buy a schoolgirl outfit, dress up, sit down and study.

[Anisha]

i will try it.....but can u tell me why only the urge comes in the time of study and not during normal fun days?

[Robyn]

It has probably become a form of stress relief.  An escape, if you will.

Robyn

[Anisha]

i have decided this time i will not allow my feminine side to go away after the exams............and be complete crossdresser

[jenny_]

buy a schoolgirl outfit, dress up, sit down and study.

rofl!

i will try it.....but can u tell me why only the urge comes in the time of study and not during normal fun days?

its not easy (or possible) to answer for somebody else.  Why do you crossdress?  Do you do it because you find it relaxing and releases the stresses of exams etc?  Or do you find that you only can't control it during exam periods? Or is it a distraction during times of study? or another reason?

jenny
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[Anisha]

actually i donot find it relaxing as i cant even sleep and i only dream of becoming girl........i cant control it during exams period as well as it is a distraction during the time of exam......what do u think Jenny i should to prevent it as i almost failed in class 11 this time......

[jenny_]

If you are a crossdresser, then thats what you are - there's no question of preventing it.  You can supress it, but thats not healthy.

from what you've said it seems to be a major issue for you, so coming to terms with who you are is the most important thing.  maybe you should be looking at accepting who you are (whatever that is) rather than preventing it?

why do you think that the urge only comes in the time of study and not during normal fun days?

Posted on: February 28, 2008, 06:31:05 AMthat last question was intended as a trick question or anything, i'm just interested in what you think the reason is

[Anisha]

i dont know perhaps bcoz during study one likes to do what he likes best...........

[tekla]

Hey, it worked for me.  I used to dress up to study.  Calmed my mind.

[Anisha]

ok.........i will try.......i will wear my sister dress..........shirt and skirt..should i also use make up while studying??

[katy19]

a lot of the same thing has happened to me.  i guess a lot of it has to do with the fact that you're not up and about when youre studying.  plus studying is often times boring and your mind wants to wander.  it focuses on whats important to you.  being a male physically, my mind is off of my dillemna when im with friends or playing music or whatever, but its especially when im doing homework when it hits me again.

[Super]

Hey...anisha..........I"m also in u r shoes.......feeling the same things.........soo if u don't mind......can we talk over it.........it wud benefit both of us......