TGs Dating TGs - Have you or would you?

[Shana A]

Tom Waits is absolutely awesome!!!!! What a writer!

And as I said earlier in this thread, I don't care what gender my partner is or isn't...

Z

[Rachael]

Call me ficle... or selfish, but im a heterosexual girl. I want to date a guy. i want to marry a guy. end of story. I dont care how he started life, just a guy pls
R >

[deviousxen]

Point was, nobody should be dating anyone as screwed up as I am right now, and neither should I be dating anyone.

Now that's a sentiment I can ABSOLUTELY relate with.

Seconded. Like... I want to find someone ALMOST as screwed up, but an optimist.

[Pica Pica]

why pica? have you seen any?
R >

everytime I look in the back of a spoon

[Alyssa M.]

Point was, nobody should be dating anyone as screwed up as I am right now, and neither should I be dating anyone.

Now that's a sentiment I can ABSOLUTELY relate with.

Seconded. Like... I want to find someone ALMOST as screwed up, but an optimist.

hehe, see, someone almost as screwed up as me would be a disaster. And I am an optimist. I'm only dating people with the patience of a saint who are openminded, bisexual, and strictly monogamous. And can play the viola da gamba.

[Rachael]

R >

[DarthKitty]

But unlike some, im not going out of my way to find a transguy....
In preferance i probably wouldnt.... 2x Trans = a heap of agro that is bad enough when one in the relationship has it...

Just for the record, the majority of cisgendered men that I've met that were interested in TG's have wound up being men of this variety:

http://video.google.com/googleplayer.swf?docId=-4154434815024139884

[Nero]

Darth Kitty, you're killing me. *wiping screwdriver off monitor*

[Patroklos]

Well, I'm no longer in denial about my bisexuality and, thus, I think I could and would date someone TG, FtM or MtF, if I liked them enough and they weren't falling apart at the seams.

[Annwyn]

A transsexual is a person.

I don't know about you, but I date PEOPLE.  That includes TRANSSEXUALS.  Some of the male-to-females that I know, those tall and beautiful ones, make my half lesbo self wanna crawl in their lap and molest their lips w/ mine(I can't say).
Some of the FtMs have such amazing attitudes and insights that well, I could easily see myself getting caught in that kind of deep, passionate gaze, that sort of gaze that's gazed on a lot of things, that sort of gaze that evey FtM I've ever met has.

Then again, I don't restrict myself to, "bisexual" or, "homosexual" or, "heterosexual."  I just like whatever looks good and whoever can make me feel fuzzy inside, no matter what age(legal), what gender, orientation, whatever.  I'm honestly quite attracted to transsexuals, not because of being transsexual, but because I know that person has the capability to dream, more than anyone else, he/she dreams.  Variety is the spice of life, yes?

Although lately, I've been getting horny again.  It's not that kind of, "bend over and touch your toes," testosterone horny it's like, "cuddle kiss and nibble" horny.  Weeeeiiird.  I don't even really relate sex to it that much...

[RebeccaFog]

Although lately, I've been getting horny again.  It's not that kind of, "bend over and touch your toes," testosterone horny it's like, "cuddle kiss and nibble" horny.  Weeeeiiird.  I don't even really relate sex to it that much...

crazy.   I'm the same and I'm not even on HRT or transitioning.

[tekla]

I tend to date people, not symptoms.  I look for people who have tastes, activities, politics et. all. that are at least similar to mine.  As long as they are upfront about who they are, I can deal with what they are.

[RebeccaFog]

what if they're G. Gordon Liddy?

[tekla]

Somehow I'm sure we don't share the same politics.

[buttercup]

Hey girls, if you would not date yourself, who else will?  Really, you are demanding from others that which you will not give yourself.  Good luck on that one.

Your logic astounds me!  So I take it you date guys just like yourself?

And who's demanding?  Everyone has a preference for certain attributes, whether it be gender, hair colour, race, religion, height, weight, blah, blah, blah!   BUT it's not set in stone, as we all know, love conquers everything!  But you gotta start somewhere!

[RebeccaFog]

Dating is not about politics, is it?     


Oh My God!   I just thought, would anybody here date J. Edgar Hoover?   If he was man enough to wear his dress publicly, I mean.  'cause I think that would make him a TG (even without the publicness - but dating tends to be a public thing)

[tekla]

In fact, the people I date are very much like me.  They are physicaly active people, small 'd' democrats (granted its hard to find any other type here), educated, often in science or technology, and tend to do real things, not paper things.  They like to dance, know how to party, yet know their limits, are well employed, and are working toward something.  They read, don't watch TV, and eat well.

And dating is very political, at the very least, keeping up a debate about politics is not very romantic.

[buttercup]

In fact, the people I date are very much like me.  They are physicaly active people, small 'd' democrats (granted its hard to find any other type here), educated, often in science or technology, and tend to do real things, not paper things.  They like to dance, know how to party, yet know their limits, are well employed, and are working toward something.  They read, don't watch TV, and eat well.

And dating is very political, at the very least, keeping up a debate about politics is not very romantic.

Riiiight.... so where does appearance come into play?     Before or after they open their mouths?  >

[tekla]

I've dated people tall and short, rail thin and heavy, its not the determining quality. 

More than anything else I think the quality of their past relationships has more influence then what they look like.

[buttercup]

I've dated people tall and short, rail thin and heavy, its not the determining quality. 

More than anything else I think the quality of their past relationships has more influence then what they look like.

You have a very interesting way of answering a question. 

How does someone's past relationship influence you and how would you find out such information?  Or do you mean quantity?