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If there ever was a sign that I'm doing the right thing...

Started by Hazumu, May 14, 2006, 11:56:28 AM

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Hazumu

Last night I went to the SGA potluck.  Just to set the stage for the real reason for this post, it was my first time going out en femme.  A grand time was had by all, we ate our fill of 'recipies from home' (the theme of the potluck,) and received an excellent presentation on hair pieces and extensions (there IS hope for those of us cursed with male pattern baldness!)

Afterwards, we repaired to the bar across the street.  I was conversing with a couple of the other SGA members about issues both general and trans-related, when a  woman came up to me and said we had both worked together previously.

OhmigawdOhmigawdOhmigawd! 

Yes! 

I remember! 

We spent a good twenty minutes touching bases, remembering the good and the bad of working for that organization, talking about the various saints and devils we had encountered there.  She said I'll be surprised as I meet others I knew from that organization who are part of the GLBT community (honestly, I politely kept my suspicions on a few people to myself... )

--wow--

We exchanged contact information, and a hug for old times, and I got a laugh from her when I said, "It's great meeting you again for the first time!"

In another thread/topic we're discussing doubts about transition.  I have those, too.  If I didn't, I'd be really worried about me (wouldn't you be about you?)

But last night, and the unforseen meeting was another confirmation that I'm on the right path.

Karen
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Annie Social

Karen, I'm constantly amazed at the way things seem to happen just when we need them! Trying to decide whether to transition, something comes out of the blue to give you that kick you need to get started. Just when you're having doubts about passing, you get hit on when you're in guy mode.

I had it happen again today. Last night I was thinking about how badly I needed a friend I could just hang out with and talk to, when a guy I know called me up and said he had met someone that I just had to meet. "You two have so much in common; I know you could be great friends. Here's her number; give her a call." So I did, and we got along well on the phone, and decided to meet for lunch today.

We had a great time; after lunch we came back to my little place and hung out on the sofa talking for an hour and a half. We have plans to meet up again, and maybe go out shopping!

It's almost scary, the way things keep happening at just the right time. It really does serve as a sort of confirmation that I'm doing the right thing.

Annie
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stephanie_craxford

Great news both of you.  It's such a wonderful feeling to be accepted for who you are, and it's also a credit to you both.  Confidence is essential as when those around us see that, they often realize that there is no danger or shame in hanging with us, and often they leave their own misgivings behind them.  People can surprise you :)

It's these episodes that confirm you are on the right road, and when you hit those potholes (which you will) don't dwell on them too much and simply reflect back on these times to help smooth them over.

Steph

P.S.  Karen i got the DVD - it's great thanks so much.
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