i know how you feel Tanya, my estranged mother has always been stronger than me, one lady to never mess with is mom. my wife when preggers as she is now, is like two or three times stronger than i am, i don't really work out anymore nor do i try to throw tires around like the guys, i really don't like to be dirty as i get in people's cars a lot due to my job. they always say don't worry about plastic, yeah well there's always that one person who'll make a fuss just after they told you it was ok to get in their vehicle all dirty.
Best Wishes
Mickie