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Started by stephanie_craxford, June 01, 2006, 05:18:06 PM

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stephanie_craxford

What a great day!

I had my first appointment with my speech therapist (Dr Karen B...)  All I can say is that she is a wonderful person.

My appointment was for 9:30 AM so as usual I arrived at the hospital way too early :) and made my way through the corridors to the Speech Pathology Clinic.  Karen was on time and she took me to her office.  We started off with each of us relating our backgrounds and a brief life story so to speak.  This really put me at ease as I was a little nervous at first, but this could have been due to excitement as well.

She went through my medical history, who was apart of my transition (doctors, therapists etc.), what medical problems I had, what medications including HRT I was on, and finally what was the biggest concerns as far as my voice were and what I saw as an acceptable result of the therapy.

Using charts and diagrams, she then went on to explain how the voice is produced which really surprised me as I didn't realize how complex it was.  She finished giving me several pages of information on what she had just covered.  It was very, very interesting.  She then focused on my fluid intake, and the types of fluid I was in-taking (apparently I intake the wrong ones) :). She went on to say that the therapy will/could strain my larynx and lots of water will counter that.  To wrap up the session she gave me home work to prepare for the next our session next week, part of it being to observe how women laugh, clear their throat and cough.  Should be interesting.

Karen is great, the whole session was conducted face to face across a small table eye to eye the whole time.  She was recording my gestures and how I carried myself as well as women tend to be more expressive that way, and she was very pleased.  We will be meeting weekly for as long as it takes or until we/I get to the point that we have done as much as we can.  Fortunately this is all covered by the Province so there is no cost to me. Yay :)

I'll keep you posted on how it goes.

Steph
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Melissa

Congratulations Stephanie.  I've been going to speech therapy myself and just had my 3rd session on tuesday.  I've been going weekly and paying out of pocket, but she is very good and I am making leaps and bounds on my voice already.  Part of the reason I've been successful so far is I had picked up some good habits from previous singing lessons, the "Finding Your Female Voice" videos, and information on the internet.  Plus lots of practice on my own.  Speech therapy is helping all those concepts I have learned "click" into place.  I was able to get at least the sneeze and laugh down on my own, but I'm still working on the cough.  Also, even though I'm not fulltime yet and not all out yet, I am incorporating many of the concepts into my daily speech. 

For instance I kind of had the voice resonating in my head just happen by itself and if I talk in a lower pitch, it still sounds male, but instills a good habit.  Also, I'll talk in a female voice out loud when I'm alone in my car and just thinking out loud.  It makes very good practice.  I have some events coming up where I am going to be female for extended periods of time and I'm sure the voice will be pretty good by that time.

A tip that somebody at one of my support groups gave me was to call up voicemail or an answering machine and keep trying to use a female voice and playing it back so you can hear what you sound like better.  I found this works much better than a tape recorder.

Melissa
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Kimberly

Meh. I am not to keen on the idea of using a phone as any sort of measure. My male voice (long before I woke up) would get me ma'med on the phone :P
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stephanie_craxford

Quote from: Kimberly on June 02, 2006, 05:04:17 AM
Meh. I am not to keen on the idea of using a phone as any sort of measure. My male voice (long before I woke up) would get me ma'med on the phone :P

I know that feeling :)

Steph
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Rana

Hi Stephanie :)

I look forward with great interest to reading your posts on how you will be progressing and what will be involved.  Did your therapist mention anything about singing

Rana :)


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Melissa

I was able to do a relatively passable (in person) voice before even starting therapy.  By using the phone, I was able to refine it a little more.  Then applying techniques I learned from speech therapy, I can do a relatively passable voice on the phone.  Back when I first started to transition, my wife called me up while I was in a store en feeme and I hadn't really worked much on the voice other than info on the internet, so I tried to do my best female voice.  I guess it worked so well, my wife had thought she called the wrong number at first. :D  However, I wasn't able to hold it too long, and thus comes voice therapy.

I personally believe that your voice is one of the biggest things you can do to increase your passability.  If you looked androgynous and spoke in a female voice, people would tend to tip their thinking towards female.  On the phone it's invaluable if you don't want to be constantly outing yourself.

Melissa

Melissa
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NightAngel


Congratulations Steph!!

Observing woman by laugh  etc ... should really be interesting and nice idea to start.Thanks Steph.



QuoteI guess it worked so well, my wife had thought she called the wrong number at first. :D

:D :D :D good one Melissa!


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Michelle


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stephanie_craxford

Quote from: Rana on June 02, 2006, 07:59:05 AM
Hi Stephanie :)

I look forward with great interest to reading your posts on how you will be progressing and what will be involved.  Did your therapist mention anything about singing

Rana :)

Actually she did in that she recommend that I don't do that as it places unnecessary strain on the larynx.  She added that if I were a trained singer that it would be no problem but until we get into the swing of things that there are betters ways to practice that will become apparent in future sessions.

And yes I will definitely keep you posted on progress and such.

Steph
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Melissa

Quote from: Stephanie Craxford on June 02, 2006, 09:37:49 AM
Actually she did in that she recommend that I don't do that as it places unnecessary strain on the larynx.  She added that if I were a trained singer that it would be no problem...

Ah, now that explains why my speech therapist didn't see singing as a problem, since I was trained.

Melissa
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