Hello Tino.
If you feel you have said enough then you have said enough

Welcome to Susan's and yes I have to agree that our transitions do run the risk of completely taking over our lives and those that are close to us if we let it. While it may be the most important issue in the world to us, it often isn't for others

Something we must guard against.
I'm so glad that Susan's has been such a help to both you and Spike, that's what we're here for. Enjoy the site, explore away, and meet new friends. We have several things to offer including Chat, the Links section, here in the Forums, and of course the Wiki, our knowledge base.
So relax enjoy your stay and take part where you can.
Steph