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Started by Mario, June 15, 2006, 01:49:59 PM

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Mario

I have my 2 younger kids with me for a few days. Jenny is 10 and Jonathan is 8. This is 3rd time we have had the bottom surgery conversation. They both understand the top surgery concept. So jenny says as she points to her top "these will be gone in August"? I say "yes" Then she points to down there on herself and then Jonathan asks "are they going to glue it on?" "what kind of glue"? Then Jenny says "No idiot". And then she says "its going to grow from the hormones right"? Im thinking they are more perceptive than I thought for their age. Pam took over and did kind of explain that is what will happen, but there is more to it too. It is good to know that I think those two will be fine. Madison too. She is 11. Mariah? No. She is still having a hard time now, and as I begin to change I don't know what it will do to her. She will be 15 next month. I don't know what I will do if she rejects me. We were always so close, but day by day it seems to get harder with her.

                                                  Marco
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stephanie_craxford

Love your new pic.

Got to agree on the kids, they will suprise you every day.  You are definitely bless to have two wonderful children.

Steph
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taylor

Hey Marco,

That is just too funny with the youngest ones! Mariah is actually going to be ok, believe it or not. I say that because what she is doing is very typical, it really is. Her age is the biggest issue.  I know at times I mention my book, but I am going to again, because I have writings from family members, and in there is a writing that is from a daughter that was a few yrs old than your daughter when her parent transitioned and divorced her mom, etc. They were very close...the rebellion came, the attitude, the emotions of hate etc.  But the outcome....I will let you read her words for yourself. She will take you through the beginning and every emotion she had, her writing is just brilliant!

The reason that I have the final chapter the voices of the family members is because my daughter pointed out to me, Dad you forgot the kids! So I at the very end located the kids ( many are now college grads and older from when I started) and it was amazing, the ex spouses, current spouses, parents and children all responded and spoke out in hope to help other kids and family members. There experience is very different than ours, and I could not give justice to their voices, so I gave them the floor, and man is there so much they have to offer. Your daughter really is going to be ok, the main thing I want to get through is there is a reason for hope! It is just so very painful right now, but Marco, it is NOT hopeless, so hang in there!

Peace,
Taylor
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Mario

Thanks Steph. I like that picture best so far. I can only hope Mariah will come around in time. I still always think of you and your daughter. I hope she too will come around. Seems time is never on our side no matter what.

                                         Marco


Posted at: June 15, 2006, 08:39:06 PM

Thanks Taylor. Is that the book that is on your web site? I would be interested in a book with that kind of stuff in it. Sounds like Mariah could benifit from reading something like that as well. Let me know. Even harder is Mariah and Tiffani(Pam's daughter) are trying to hold there friendship in place through all this. It is in the court papers of Pam's divorce that I am not to be in there presence when she is with her kids, and Tiffani Dosen't want to see me anyway. She use to love me. When I was just Mariah's mom. It's kind of tough for them both to deal with that fact that ther " moms" are "together". Damn, I cant wait till August for top surgery.

                                Marco

               
                                         
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jaded

hey marco  your new pic is great !! your kids sound real cute:)
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Mario

Thanks Jaded. Where have you been? And where is your picture? Im not seeing it.

                                        Marco
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taylor

Hey Marco,

Yes this is the book that I am referring to.  You can pre purchase it through the website if you would like.  The book is due out Mid to late July.  Or you can wait and get it through Barnes and Nobles if you would like. If your daughter reads this I have all idea this will be a big help to her...may not solve all her problems, but will sure get her to stop and think some things through and not feel so alone.

Susans will be posting a release announcement as well.  If you purchase through All-Pointz  website a portion of this purchase is to finance further research and education.

Peace,

Taylor
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Mario

I will definatley get one. Thanks Taylor.

                              Marco
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