How the hell did my School find out?!?!?!

[Tanya1]

Okay,

long story short,

my mom finds my HRT, something bad happens in school, they say that one of my teachers said I wanted to change sex(I just wrote a speech about it, never said that)


IDK how they got this idea. Some people even suspected of being gay and I havent even transitioned.


What do think it was, behavior, rumors??-

I don't really care much, but i want to keep this to myself- not too the whole school

[offthesidewalk]

I was in a similar situation in my tenth grade. one of my friends decided to come out being gay and so, my mom, the teachers, and basically the whole school thought i was gay too.

i doubt your mom would discuss such a personal thing to any of the teachers unless they are very close friends.
my guess is that it's just a rumor that spread because of the speech you made. i would regard where your mom found your HRT a complete seperate incident (unless your mom is friends with one of teachers where she could've heard the rumors from)

If i were you, i wouldn't mention it unless I'm being asked directly, and even then I'd answer vaguely.

[Tanya1]

It was just a class assignment to make up some speech- not really a speech.

I really do think my mom ratted me out because they were saying that I can't come in without a doc's note which is completetly unrelated to why I was suspended. I even confronted her today, and I could tell she was lying even though she denied it. She most defiently told them about me taking HRT b/c why in the world would they ask for a doc's note?

- I don't really care b/c I'm going to leave the school but still I'm not into advertising my transition, especially since I haven't even come close to transitioning. I'm not sure if they little maggots AKA students...lol know but I prefer that they don't know, they probably don't know but rumors spread quickly.- most likely don't know and don't care.

[Wiriamu]

I outed myself on Facebook about a month ago, and apparently caused a minor commotion in my old high school.
Everyone in my school was supportive, but they said it made sense, since I was known as the straight 'gay boy'. 
Apparently my english teacher, when told i'm transsexual by a flustered ninth grader, responded with "Oh, is that all?"
It made me giggle...
-Allie

[Tanya1]

^ lol, it's good you have support. That's good. But we Ts's need our own space. Sometimes we may be to closed in our space but I personally I'm not into people knowing that don't need to know.

I doubt kids will know in school since I'm not that well known in school actaully.

[offthesidewalk]

I'm not into people knowing that don't need to know.

That's why i would talk to your mom, or write her a letter- or something (if i were you, of course). But she needs to know from you. there's always going to be this gap between you.
if you're mom did talk to one of the teacher, i doubt it was her intent to suspended or bared from school.
But she did find your HRT, so i think she's having a hard time finding answers to understand what you're going through. she didn't yell at you when she found your HRT, did she? if she hadn't, that's already a sign of respect. remember, she may feel very left out of your life- which is hard for her to talk about it too. give it time.
*hugs*

[Tanya1]

^ Well she didn't yell. She seemed concerned about my health. Then she started crying. At first she said to go the legal route. Then the next day she told my sis when I told her not to and she went and told her anyway.-I know this because I seen history of them searching Trans sites in their net history.- sneaky, I know.

I went through sooooo much crap, fights and arguments like the past month and a half.- It was hell, not kidding.

So far my mom is just avoiding the whole issue and discussion about it. 

[offthesidewalk]

don't you think that maybe she's searching the internet alone?
i won't deny that there's a possibility that you're sis is in on it... But i wouldn't jump to conclusions. most parents are concerned about what their kids do- But at least she's looking for information... and that's a very big step for her all in itself.
I can only imagine that it's been a rough time- But i still think you should talk to her or write her a letter. face it- she's not going to ask you questions unless you give her that option.
But then again... that's just i would do. i think it'll help in lifting the stress (in my opinion)

sorry i couldn't help much.
I'm here if you want to talk tho.
*hugs*

[Rowan_Danielle]

Okay,

long story short,

my mom finds my HRT, something bad happens in school, they say that one of my teachers said I wanted to change sex(I just wrote a speech about it, never said that)


IDK how they got this idea. Some people even suspected of being gay and I havent even transitioned.


What do think it was, behavior, rumors??-

I don't really care much, but i want to keep this to myself- not too the whole school

The speech was probably the trigger point.  While it may have been 'fictional', if you delivered it with enough passion, people might jump to the conclusion that you were talking about yourself.

[Tanya1]

^ LOL

When my teacher asked if this is my "thing"- I said no but I think she read my mind.

Ohhh well.

[Keira]

You took HRT for months.... Huh, that shows, maybe you looked
more female than you thought.

After 4 months, I could not pass as male, so hey, it can go fast if
you don't have facial hair.

[Tanya1]

^ I was on a low dose though and my breast development was disappointing. I'm switching to injections though and going to make sure the doses are enough. Ill keep my HGH up too.

Trust me I don't pass at all!!! However someone did say they didn't recognize me. They go to my school and they work at CVS and they said "you look different now"... A lot of people also think I look like a "kid".

[Rowan_Danielle]

^ LOL

When my teacher asked if this is my "thing"- I said no but I think she read my mind.

Ohhh well.

If she asked, then she was already making a guess based on the topic and the knowledge of the topic.  Why would anyone who is not interested in something do the research?  (Unless you had a good friend going through the process.)