Jennifer,
This thread is not about being "out" or "stealth" .... we can "share" our experience here without revealing personal details that might compromise us in real life ....
I'm "out" in my profession, family, close friends .... but like to be "stealth" when meeting new friends / (men !), until I can really trust them enough that they become part of my "inner circle" ....
But that's a whole different topic .... 😉 ....
Laura x