I stop reading whenever I see the word "lifestyle."
I hate that these people get away with calling people "deviant, immoral sickoes destined to burn in hell" by using the PC code-word "lifestyle" for their ignorance.
And how in God's name is my life a "lifestyle?" I pay my bills, go to work, buy groceries, go out to dinner... not as a transsexual, not even as a woman really, but just as me. I'm not in a "transsexual community." I don't do "transsexual things" every weekend. I don't have a set of "transsexual beliefs" that my world is filtered through. I do normal things, in normal ways, as a boring and ordinary person.
I CAN see how some TSs and gays DO live a "lifestyle" in the sense that their world is oriented around other people in their "community," going only to gay owned and operated establishments, attending get-togethers and conferences every weekend, etc.
But the vast majority of TSs and gays "just happen to be" what they are. It's not some dominating worldview and closed environment that they live within.
In fact, if anything is a "lifestyle," it'd be these people who run around seeing only saints and sinners, the saved and the damned, hanging out with people in their own cult, reading only things which perpetuate their closed and narrow worldview. THAT is a "lifestyle." That is oriented your life around a limiting, self-blinding, isolating set of beliefs and practices.
~Kate~